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Make Something People Will Talk About

Host a party, game, meetup, gathering, or creative experience—and give people another way to find one another at SELF.

Host applications open September 18 and close October 15 at 3 PM.

Some of the most memorable parts of SELF are created by people who decide to bring others together. Individuals, clubs, organizations, families, packs, and special-interest groups can propose a party, meetup, game, gathering, creative activity, or social experience.

A host creates something participatory rather than a class: an experience where people can connect, play, make, talk, celebrate, or simply have a good time together.

What Could You Host?

Parties & SocialsCreate a themed gathering, cocktail or mocktail hour, dance, or celebration.
Games & PlayBring people together for games, friendly competition, or playful challenges.
Meetups & CaucusesMake room for connection around shared identities, interests, or communities.
Creative ExperiencesHost crafting, interactive art, themed activities, or something entirely new.

What SELF Hosts Do

  • Bring an engaging idea that gets people together.
  • Create a fun, exciting, welcoming, and participatory experience.
  • Showcase a club, group, family, pack, SIG, or community.
  • Plan the activity, atmosphere, and decorations.
  • Propose snacks, cocktails, or mocktails when appropriate.
  • Offer an imaginative way to celebrate or connect.
  • Consider a fundraiser supporting SELF titleholders, charities, or scholarships.
  • Communicate clearly with SELF while the event is being planned.

Past ideas have included: Canvas & Cocktails, Cards Against Humanity, Singles Mingle, Littles Day Camp, cocktail parties, the Latex Rain Party, caucuses, themed breakfasts, and foot parties. These are examples—not limits.

Depending on the scope, cost, duration, and attendee experience of an approved proposal, hosts may qualify for discounted or complimentary SELF packages. Bring us an idea people will remember.

Apply to Host at SELF

Use the application below during the submission window, September 18 through October 15 at 3 PM.

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Fun Host Application

We are so excited to help facilitate your ideas for fun this year at SELF! Our 2027 theme is ALLURE. We appreciate the value you bring to our participants and all the fun we experience with you!

 

THESE ARE THE ONLY HOSTING TIME SLOTS THAT ARE OPEN. ALL OTHER TIMES ARE FILLED.

 

Please note that additional hosts cannot be added after your event has been confirmed on the schedule by SELF.  
NOTE: Title Contestants are not eligible to teach nor host while running for a title.

Contact Name *
Organization Name *
Best Contact Email *
Best Contact Phone Number (if you do not provide a phone number, this application will be considered incomplete) *
Type of Activity *
Facebook Profile *
Fetlife Profile *
Instagram Profile *
Bluesky Profile *
Other Social Media (Facebook/Fetlife Group Page, Tiktok, etc.) *
I agree that any social media profile provided above can be linked, tagged, and friended by SELF and its media outlets.*
Yes
No
How did you hear about us? (please select all that apply) *
I agree to allow SELF to promote my fun event.*
Yes
No
I intend to participate in the full weekend.*
Yes
No
I agree to engage with SELF via the social media channels I listed above.*
Yes
No
I am willing to host during the following time slots: THESE ARE THE ONLY HOSTING TIME SLOTS THAT ARE OPEN ALL OTHER TIMES ARE FILLED.
Morning
Afternoon
Evening
Fri/Saturday pre-9:30am YOGA classes only
I am willing to host a fun event during the contest time on Friday and/or Saturday night.*
Yes
No
I am willing to have my personal room on the same hallway adjacent to the party rooms.*
Yes
No
Provide your room reservation #
Have you, or your co-host(s), ever been banned from an event/ group/ organization? Have you ever been asked to step down from a position of leadership, if so, where and why? If so, please give the event, year, and reason. *
Have you, or your co-host(s), ever been accused of a consent violation? If so, please give all pertinent details. *

SELF Promotes Diverse Voices

SELF recognizes and values the rich diversity within our community.  We proactively cultivate multicultural representation and inclusion throughout all aspects of our event by prioritixing collaboration with community members who are marginalized on the basis of race, ethnicity, gender (identity or expression), sexual orientation, and/or disability.  With our commitment to diversity in mind, are you a member of a marginalized community?

If so, please tell us more:

At SouthEast LeatherFest, we commit to providing our community with a culturally diverse event and hold ourselves accountable to ensure we meet this goal.  We've provided checkboxes to provide us with a broad view of community representation as well as a fill-in option to learn about your specific identity. To help us evaluate our work, if you chose to, please tell us about yourself. We will use this data to ensure that we are uplifting marginalized voices and we are bringing the culturally diverse event to our community that we promise.  This information is confidential and will never be shared.

Race/Ethnicity

Host (please select all that apply)*
Black
Indigenous
Asian
Pasifika
LatinX or Latine
Multi-Racial
White
I prefer not to answer
Host: If you dont see yourself described, please add here.

Sexual Orientation

Host (please select all that apply)*
LGBTIQA+
Heterosexual
I prefer not to answer
Host: If you dont see yourself described, please add here.

Gender

Host (please select all that apply)*
Cis-gender Woman
Cis-gender Man
Trans*/Non-Binary/GNC
I prefer not to answer
Host: If you dont see yourself described, please add here.
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Fun Event Information

Title of Activity *
Time needed for set up *
Event length *
Who is the activity primarily for? *
How many people do you anticipate will attend? *
How many people are needed to run the activity? *
Names of additional hosts. *
Activity Description to be published on the SELF website and on social media outlets. Descriptions containing placeholder or repeated sentences/words will render your application incomplete and will not be considered until a complete description is provided. *
0 (Min. 350 Characters)
Supplies provided by the host. *
What would you need from SELF? *
I agree to promote my event on social media at least twice a month from the time it is announced until the event. *
Yes
No
Please send us a logo or graphic for your activity or group. Please name your file YEAR ACTIVITY.jpg or YEAR ACTIVITY.png. Logo files should be 500 px X 500 px. Only 2 pictures, please. *
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Accept Terms *

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What is SELF?

SELF is an adult educational, fundraising, & social convention that supports lifestyles & health of consenting adults. Four days of exploration, invigoration, & conversation.