Professional kinksters by Phobos Onyx

A discussion on being “outted” as a kinkster in a professional workplace. Being “outted” as gay is one thing, but as both gay and a kinkster is a different story. The assumptions, the rumors, the stares are very different. A vanilla world can have a wide array of reactions as that leather band-aid is ripped off, you are pulled out of that gear closet, and the spotlight is on you. This has recently happened to me, and I invite you to discuss the effects it can have on work performance, relationships, mental health, safety, and life moving forward.