SELF's Parties and Meet Ups

Thursday

Recovery Coffee Hour Thursday 5:00pm-6:15pm Room CR129
For anyone in any recovery program. Come join us for coffee and a meeting in a safe, nonjudgemental space.
SELF Connections Thursday 5:00pm-7:00pm Room CR123

This year at SELF we are bringing you CONNECTIONS! This program is for all attendees that are coming to SELF solo and would like to make connections with others to attend classes, eat meals and go to parties together. This is not a cruising or pick-up event. It is aimed toward attendees that are flying solo at SELF to make new friends and connections! Bring your schedules and meet us for coffee each morning from 8am-9am and afternoon from 12:30pm-1:30pm in Room CR123 and Thursday evening from 5pm-7pm in Room CR123 to make connections!

Opening Social and Contestant Meet and Greet Thursday 5:30pm-6:30pm Capitol Center & South
Come meet your fellow attendees and contestants! Light snacks and drinks are provided. All are welcome!
Southeast Women and Girls of Leather Gathering by Odyssey Leather Society Thursday 6:30pm-8:00pm Capitol Center & South
25 clubs+ and dozens of non-affliated women gather Thursday evening of SELF! The energy in the room is astounding— it is networking at its best where we were not mired in the problems or what might hold us back. We as a group focused on expanding our possibilities, not accepting provided answers and forging a new path. SELF cannot thank everyone enough who raises the bar, makes space for our differences, and allows all of us to feel that we, individually, have a space. We are going to raise our voices again and learn from each other. We have a unique format where questions are posed each year via email. We ask you discuss the questions with your club or the group of women you hang with before you attend so you can represent the voices and opinions of those who are not able to attend. You do not need to be a member of a club to attend. We welcome all women (cis and trans) and enbys comfortable in women centered spaces.
SELF Fun depARTment Thursday 7:00pm-1:00am GA Prefunction
SELF is proud to present our crafting tables for anyone feeling creative or needing a way to just relax and zone out for a while. Our tables will be open to you all 24 hours all weekend. Whether you spend a few minutes or hours is up to you. When you’re done, you walk away with your artwork, memories of your time spent with us and happy thoughts and feelings!
Whippersnappers Dungeon Party Thursday 9:00pm-1:00am GA 5, GA 6, GA 11, & GA 12
⚡ Whippersnappers Dungeon Party: ENERGIZE Your Play! Step into the dungeon and energize your night with Whippersnappers! Our play space is fully equipped for all kinds of kink—whether you’re here to flog, flirt, or just soak up the atmosphere. Enjoy good company, tasty snacks, and a space built on consent, connection, and authentic expression. Come be yourSELF, charge up your energy, and let the sparks fly. Let's party like we're all still just a young Whippersnapper
SELF Queer Strip Club Thursday 10:00pm-1:00am GA Prefunction
We had so much fun last year that we are doing it AGAIN! Are you ready to roar with our fabulous entertainers?! They are going to bring down the house tantalizing you at SELF’s Queer strip club!! We have sizzling performers boasting the sexy diversity of LGBTQ+ in the southeast. Be ready to show your appreciation and raise money for charity!
Decadent Sins Thursday 10:00pm-1:00am CR125
Step into a world of Decadent Sins — where cocktails drip with temptation, bites awaken desire, and the atmosphere pulses with indulgence. This is not just a party, it’s a seductive playground of guilty pleasures and wicked delights. Guests are invited to embrace the forbidden, give in to excess, and revel in a night that blurs the line between elegance and sin.
ONYX Carolinas Cocktail & Cigar Social Thursday 10:00pm-1:00am Smoking Patio
ONYX Carolinas Cigar & Cocktail Social. Join ONYX Carolinas for an evening of relaxation with cocktails, refreshments, and a nice cigar. While enjoying good energy, smooth music, and good vibes as you meet and greet with the Brothers of ONYX Carolinas. Let us serve and entertain you with our southern hospitality. We are looking forward to seeing you all.
Relax. Recharge. Reconnect. w/Odyssey Leather Society Thursday 10:00pm-1:00am CR127
Relax. Recharge. Reconnect. Step into a sanctuary of wellness, play, and community with the Odyssey Leather Society's Self-Care Fun Room! Whether you need a moment to breathe, a space to stretch, or just want to connect with others in joy and ease — this is your room. 🧘‍♀️ Enjoy a variety of self-care delights, including: Soothing massages Guided meditations & breathing exercises Gentle yoga sessions Creative vision board crafting Interactive scavenger hunts Exciting giveaways Refreshing cocktails & mocktails Delicious finger foods ...and more surprises to help you feel good inside and out! This is a come-and-go-as-you-please space — stay for a quick moment of peace or hang out and soak in the good vibes. Whether you’re decompressing between classes or just want to meet folks in a chill atmosphere, we’ve got you covered. Come unwind, connect, and get to know the Odyssey Leather Society — we can’t wait to welcome you.
80s Cocktail Party Thursday 10:00pm-1:00am CR129
House Fuji Presents: Back to the ’80s — because sometimes the best way forward is to rewind in style. Dust off your shoulder pads, tease that hair sky-high, and get ready to moonwalk back in time with House Fuji at Southeast LeatherFest 2026! We’re rewinding the clock to the decade of neon lights, synth beats, and unapologetic fun for a night of cocktails, conversation, and community. Slip into your best 1980s look—leather, lace, leg warmers, or Miami Vice chic—and join us Thursday night in CR129 from 10 PM to 1 AM for a sensory throwback filled with dazzling lights, pulsing music, and retro flair. Whether you’re sipping something classic or grooving to timeless hits, this night promises laughter, connection, and a splash of pure nostalgia.
Consent to Chaos Karaoke Thursday 10:00pm-1:00am CR123
Join House Lux Noctis as we release our inhibitions and free our voices in song. No singing skills required, but fun is mandatory. We will have goodies for those willing to brave the stage and entertain the crowd, and mocktails and snacks will be provided, because no one should be a starving artist. All are welcome to join in the fun, and festive karaoke attire is highly recommended.
Dance Party Hosted by Aylin, Rocky Mountain Person of Leather 2025-26 Thursday 10:00pm-1:00am CR121
A high-energy dance party featuring hip-hop and popular club beats mixed live by a DJ. Dance and get down to crowd favorites. Sexy lighting sets the mood while keeping classy hotel vibes, perfect for letting loose and connecting with friends.

Friday

SELF Connections
Friday 8:00am-9:00am
Room CR123

Friday Morning Cartoons Littles' Breakfast
Friday 8:00am-10:30am
CR127 & CR129

It’s Friday morning, and you know what that means—cartoons and sugary breakfast magic! Pull on your pajamas and join the PAMPER Playgroup for a cozy, 90s-style Littles’ Breakfast. We’re serving up all your childhood favorites: sugary cereals, waffles, pancakes, and plenty of giggles. Your favorite shows will be playing while you snack, color, and hang out with friends in the coziest, most carefree morning of the weekend. Come relive the magic of Saturday mornings on Friday - when all you needed was a big bowl of cereal, your favorite cartoon, and good company.

Recovery Coffee Hour
Friday 8:00am - 9:15am
Room CR121

For anyone in any recovery program. Come join us for coffee and a meeting in a safe, nonjudgemental space.

SE Regional MAsT Meeting Friday 10:00am-10:45am Room CR121
Join us for the Regional SouthEast MAsT Meeting. This meeting is open to all who are involved in MAsT Chapters and those interested or curious about 24/7 dynamics.
SELF Pamporium Friday 10:00am - 2:15pm CR129
Stressed? Feet hurting from all the walking? Need a little me time? Come be pampered! SELF is hosting a pamporium again this year!! Enjoy a face mask, body massage or foot massage in our soothing pamproium given by one of our fabulous volunteers. Sign-up board is outside of Room CR 129. First come, first pampered!
Leather Quilt Birthday Celebration Friday 12:00pm - 1:00pm Capitol North Vending Hall
Come have some birthday cake and help us celebrate!
SELF Connections Friday 12:30pm-1:30pm Room CR123

SELF'S Littles Pageant Friday 2:15pm-3:45pm Capital Center & South
SELF is back with its annual Littles' Pageant!!!! Who could forget the relay races and the guess Her age game??? Join Master Sabrina Hypnotica as We celebrate the smol folk we love. Bring your bubbles and your tiaras! Bring your favorite stuffies and Big people! Show us your party wear and your beautiful smiles. There will be fun, prizes, and surprises!
Council of SouthEast Leather Houses by House of the Hydra Friday 2:15pm-5:15pm CR127
Come meet your fellow leatherfolk and form new bonds between houses! A place for members of all leather houses, packs, clubs, and clans to come together for networking and collaboration. The first hour of this event will be for networking and socializing, the second hour will be for discussing ongoing and future projects that would benefit from inter-house collaboration. This is intended to be an annual event each SELF where leather houses can socialize, network, and collaborate to strengthen the web we form across our region.
You are invited to a wedding! Friday 8:00pm Capital Center & South rooms Curious about who that might be? Go to the yapp and find out!
Rumors Dungeon Party Friday 9:00pm - 2:00am GA 5, GA 6, GA 11, & GA 12
Welcome to RUMORS—Atlanta's bold, women-owned and organized kink haven that’s igniting the BDSM scene! Since our grand opening in September 2024, we’ve been passionately creating a space where you can explore and express your desires without fear or judgment. As a fully volunteer-run dungeon, we are on a mission to establish a self-sustaining sanctuary for our kink community in Atlanta—a place we can proudly call home. In the meantime, we’re keeping the energy high with electrifying dungeon parties and engaging educational events at our current location. Our workshops are brought to life through the collaborative efforts of our passionate volunteers, ensuring diverse insights and skills for everyone eager to learn. If you’re passionate about education or have an event idea, please message us! Have you heard the rumors? Check out our group page for more information about volunteering, event wish lists, "Who Were You?" at events, dungeon rules, etiquette, and so much more! At RUMORS, we embrace all the deliciously naughty adventures that await you—and we believe that consent is not just sweet, it's mandatory! So don’t forget to communicate well, and always screen and vet any potential people you want to interact with. Come play with us, share your fantasies, and let’s create some unforgettable experiences together!
Somewhere Over the Rainbow Tea Party Friday 10:00pm - 2:00am CR127
I don't think we're in Kansas anymore, Toto... follow the yellow brick road with Dorothy, Tin Man, Scarecrow, and the Cowardly Lion as we head to Emerald City to seek the Great and Powerful Wizard of Oz. Courage, a heart, a brain... the wizard is sure to grant our wishes! The good witch of watching out for us, but be on the lookout for angry apple trees, poisoned poppies, a wicked witch, and lions and tigers and bears, oh my!
Annual Bubbles and Glow Party Friday 10:00pm - 2:00am CR125
For littles and their friends to have snacks, make crafts and have fun with friends. Also serving our signature drinks Spoiled apple juice and Unicorn Tears. Last year was our first in person event and we would like to continue the tradition. We won Friendliest party and this time we wanna shoot for the best party. We would like to go bigger and funner this time around. And if we can find an artist to do face painting. We are excited for another opportunity to have fun with our community.
Instinct Primal Meet and Greet Friday 10:00pm - 2:00am GA13
Join us for the Primal Meet and Greet, hosted by the leadership of Instinct: An Inclusive Primal Space. This is a place for all primals, and anyone curious about primal, to get acquainted, hang out, discuss, and share space. Join us for a lightly moderated group discussion where everyone is welcome and no question is too silly, simple, or complicated. Come and chat with experienced primals, new primals, non primals, curious primals, and everyone in between!
Men's Dungeon Party with ONYX Carolinas Friday 10:00pm - 2:00am CR123

The Forge Cigar Party Friday 10:00pm - 2:00am Smoking Patio
Settle in, light up, and share space with Leather family. Join The Forge for an evening cigar social designed to slow the pace, deepen conversation, and enjoy the quiet authority of tradition. This is a protected space to breathe, connect, learn, and savor the ritual of presence. Whether you are a seasoned cigar lover or curious newcomer, you are welcome. We will share simple guidance on cigar selection and smoking etiquette, offer gentle support for first-timers, and encourage conversations that honor who we are and how we show up for one another in Leather culture. Bring your cigars if you have favorites. A limited supply will be available. Respect for environment, consent, and community care is required. Come build community one ember at a time.

Saturday

SELF Connections
Saturday 8:00am-9:00am
Room CR123

Boobs & Breakfast
Saturday 8:00am-10:30am
CR127 & CR129

Join Talon Clan Primal Pack for a titillating breakfast! I mean, who doesn't want to start the day with a topless breakfast party? And yes, I mean the clothes, not the domly doms/dommes. We will have a spread of our favorites to share with you. So if your up for getting out of bed for good chow, camaraderie, and conversation, we're happy to have you. Come meet some of our members and other folks in the community. Pack members of Talon Clan will be wearing vests with the pack's logo on the back. Feel free to introduce yourself!

Little's Daycare Saturday 9:30am-12:30pm ATL2
Feeling little? Come join the PAMPER Playgroup as we host our third annual Littles’ Daycare at SELF! Pack your backpack, dress in your cutest little gear, and don’t forget your favorite stuffie for an afternoon filled with teacher-led activities, learning centers, and independent playtime with friends. We’ll have toys, crafts, and cozy corners for littles to explore while Bigs attend workshops—and of course, snacktime will be provided! Want to earn a gold star on your daily report? Bring something special for show and tell! Whether you’re brand new to the ageplay scene or a returning student, we can’t wait to welcome you back for another year of fun, friendship, and play.
SELF Pamporium Saturday 10:00am-2:15pm CR129
Stressed? Feet hurting from all the walking? Need a little me time? Come be pampered! SELF is hosting a pamporium again this year!! Enjoy a face mask, body massage or foot massage in our soothing pamproium given by one of our fabulous volunteers. Sign-up board is outside of Room CR 129. First come, first pampered!
SELF Connections Saturday 12:30pm-1:30pm Room CR123

Recovery Coffee Hour Saturday 2:15pm-3:30pm Room CR123
For anyone in any recovery program. Come join us for coffee and a meeting in a safe, nonjudgemental space.
SELF Dog, Pony and Critter Show Saturday 2:15pm-5:15pm Capitol Center & South
Join the SELF Annual Dog, Pony and Critter Show! Come share your animal side with us. Each participant will prance, hop, dance, whatever your critter does, in our parade around the ballroom then showcase your unique critters skills in up to a 3 minute performance. You'll be judged on your uniqueness, costume, and representation of your critter. All critters are welcome mythical, real, imagined and hybrids. Please sign up in Room CR 131 to participate. Raise your paw, hoof, or claw and join us for the fun!
Feline Frolick Saturday 5:15pm-8:15pm Room CR129
FoCC Feline Frolick: A safe space for BIPoC felines to play, frolick, nap or chat. There will be music, small play space for our feisty felines with a few impact toys, a soft corner for shy felines and of course snacks and a few choices of non-alcoholic drinks (feel free to bring your own alcoholic drinks but please be mindful and respectful of those who choose not to partake). All are welcomed but please be mindful that this space was created for BIPoC felines' freedom of expression and soft landing space.
SELF Titleholders Step Down Celebration Saturday 5:15pm-6:15pm GA Prefunction
Instinct Primal Meet and Greet Saturday 9:00pm-2:00am GA13
Join us for the our annual Primal Play Party at SELF, hosted by Instinct: An Inclusive Primal Group. The lights go down, the music turns up, and we provide a safe space for you to unleash the beast. Come be a part of all the energy of the Primal Space, hang out with friends or even get on the mats with a partner! Stay late into the night with this wild gathering of primals and primal players!
Indulge: A House Akanke Experience Saturday 10:00pm-2:00am Room CR123
Surrender to indulgence with House Akanke’s late-night suite party, Indulge, from 10 PM–2 AM. The evening brims with tasty drinks, decadent bites, and live music, heightened by a surprise sensual performance. Explore sensation stations featuring colorful wax play, a lavish human charcuterie board, and soothing foot massages—all celebrating pleasure, play, and desire within a space rooted in consent and care.
Dragon Fire Cocktail Party Saturday 10:00pm-2:00am Room CR125
🔥 You’re Invited to the Dragon Fire Cocktail Party! 🔥 Hosted by the DeeLicious House of Heart Step into the Dragon-Wolves Den for an unforgettable night of fire, flavor, and fun! 🧃 Signature Sips Enjoy our house favorites: • Dragon’s Blood Punch • Dragon’s Fire Sangria Crafted to ignite your taste buds and keep the vibes flowing. 🍴 DeeLicious Finger Foods Savor tasty bites while you mingle under the black lights or snap a pic at our balloon arch photo station! 🎉 Let the Fun Begin Get in on the action with games, or hit the floor with a line dance or two. There’s something for everyone in the Den! 🗓️ We can’t wait to see you there for an evening full of magic, laughter, and DeeLicious vibes.
T3WD Mocktail Party Saturday 10:00pm-2:00am Room CR127
Mocktail hour!! Open to all. For anyone who doesn't drink alcohol, and for those who would like other options to drink before partaking in the play parties. Please feel free to come join us for some fun and delicious mocktails. Alcohol excluded. Brought to you by T3WD - founded in leather 25 years ago, and still active in Columbia, SC. We would love to have you!
Leatherheart Clan and Charlotte Cigar Social Saturday 10:00pm-2:00am Smoking Patio
Please join me, lilheaven (Leather Heart Clan) and a few other members of the Charlotte Cigar Social as we gather to enjoy good drink, great leaf, gorgeous company and grand conversations. Cigars will be available for a donation, all proceeds will benefit the SELF Titleholder Travel Fund. Whether you arrive an afficionado or a novice, I promise you will leave a Sibling of the Leaf.
Roaring 20s Cocktail Party Saturday 10:00pm-2:00am CR129
Let's go back to the Roaring 20s!! Join the House of Valor for a fun night of food, cocktails and games! Thre will be a prize for the best period costume! Get your flapper dresses and natty suits out and join us! Don't miss our signature Dragon's Blood Cocktail and old fashions! Drop back in time at our Speakeasy and relax with cocktails and great conversations! Everyone is welcome at the House of Valor!
The Littles' Bubble & Glow Baby Rave Saturday 10:00pm-2:00am CR121
Get ready to shine, sparkle, and dance the night away! Join the PAMPER Playgroup for our Bubble & Glow Baby Rave—a night of flashing lights, bouncy beats, and big little energy. We’ll be spinning fun, high-energy EDM mixes of your favorite tiny tunes in a glow-filled play space made for dancing, laughing, and being your brightest little self. Dress in your cutest rave gear or glow-in-the-dark accessories, grab your glow sticks, and get ready to bop, bounce, and bubble with friends late into the night. It’s the most colorful bedtime you’ll ever have!
Giant Dirty Filthy Jenga Saturday 10:30pm-12:00am GA Prefunction
Come join Lady Victoria for The dirtiest, filthiest, giant Jenga you've ever seen! Each block comes with a task you have to preform or a truth you have to tell. BEWARE of the Lady Victoria's choice blocks!!