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SELF LIVE! includes access to 2 zoom rooms. Physical on-site portions of the event are not included in this package.
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Friday 9am- 9:30am |
OPENING CEREMONY Opening note with Master Dante & slave Gaia  Master Dante Amor Master Dante has been formally active in M/s for over two decades and owned slave Gaia Amor for twenty of those, a polyamorous Master/slave relationship by design from its inception. This expanded into a polyfidelitous dynamic when slave Sarah joined his leather family seven years ago, and again when slave Coco joined them two years later. They maintain a 24/7 M/s household together in NYC. A loquacious instigator, tipper of sacred cows, and certified clinical hypnotherapist for over two decades, in authority-based relationships Dante has always centered emotional, psychological, and interpersonal dynamics first and foremost. A firm believer that mastery is a continual work in progress requiring rigorous self-inquiry, personal development, vulnerability, and a willingness to support others, he currently serves the community as: • Director, MAsT: Metro NY • Producer, MsC Worldwide • Vice-President, MAsT International • Board, MTTA Inc. (Master/slave Conference) Slave Gaia Amor Slave Gaia first came to understand her slave heart over two decades ago in South Africa where she was born, raised, and active in the community as participant and presenter. She then moved halfway around the world to be collared by Master Dante, who she has had the privilege of serving for twenty years as of July 2025. Her dedication to loving and caring for others is a natural expression of her slavery as evidenced by her being such a shameless hugging whore. She serves as Treasurer of MAsT: Metro NY, Education Liaison of MsC Worldwide, Workshop Coordinator for MsC, Associate Member of ONYX Pearls NY-NE, and proudly supports House Amor, her leather family in all its endeavours. |
| Friday 9:30 - 10:45am ROOM 1 |
Basics of Latex: A guide to Rubber and Rubberists by CorgReporter |
| Friday 9:30 - 10:45am ROOM 2 |
Bushido and Leather: Way of the Warrior, Way of the slave by Tomo With over two-thirds of his life immersed in Japanese martial arts, Tomo has long walked a path shaped by Bushido—the “Way of the Warrior.” As a Leather person, Dominant, and slave, that influence runs deep, offering a framework of discipline, honor, and intentional service that reaches far beyond the martial arts and into the heart of Leather. In this class, we’ll explore the eight virtues of Bushido—Honor, Justice, Courage, Compassion, Respect, Integrity, Loyalty, and Self-Control—and consider how they can inform our Leather lives, our relationships, and our leadership. Whether you’re on a path of mastery, service, or something more fluid, these principles offer rich insight into how we show up for ourselves and for one another. This class is a conversation about values, alignment, and how ancient codes still speak to modern Leather. Come curious, come reflective, and leave with new language for what you likely already know to be true in your Leather heart. |
| Friday 11:15 - 12:30pm ROOM 1 |
Technical Energy to Sensual Energy: A Deep Dive into Erotic Bootblacking boy by Badu Ngozi This deep dive is meant to give an intro to supplies and tools used during bootblacking. It will serve as an Intensive 101. With a focus on energy exchange, Technical to Sensual will demonstrate how the shift from technical bootblacking to erotic bootblacking is all about energy. The tools and supplies are the same.. its all about headspace. Participants will find ways to engage in connection through bootblacking. More than a polish, it care connection and energy made visible. |
| Friday 11:15 - 12:30pm ROOM 2 |
Yes, Master - but First, a Nap: Balancing Service and Self-Care by Marilyn & Rio, Marilyn's slave For those of us who serve, service can be an imperative that trumps all else. But how do you carve out time for yourself? Often we sacrifice our own wants (and sometimes needs) in favor of service. In this class we'll discuss open communication, how we can balance service with self-care, and how to engage those we serve to help facilitate this. Please share your own experiences in this interactive workshop. |
| Friday 2:15 - 3:30pm ROOM 1 |
Mastering LS Relationships: The CCW Method by m. Mocha Breeze The CCW Method is an effective tool for mastering A/all relationships by identifying exactly what's missing (or has gone off the rails!) and how to fix it. CCW focuses on Capacity, Capability, and Willingness of B/both partners to increase awareness, empathy, accountability, and most of all - expectations. CCW = Realignment. |
| Friday 2:15 - 3:30pm ROOM 2 |
Consent Assumptions: When PRICK and RACK Goes Wrong by Master Sa'Vage This engaging and critical course dives into the pitfalls of consent assumptions within BDSM and kink activities, focusing on the principles of PRICK (Practiced, Reversible, Informed, Consensual, Kink) and RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink). Participants will explore real-world scenarios where these frameworks can falter, understand common misunderstandings, and learn vital strategies to prevent consent violations. Perfect for practitioners seeking to cultivate safer, more respectful play, this class emphasizes communication, boundaries, and ongoing consent to ensure positive and consensual experiences for all involved. |
| Friday 4:00 - 5:15pm ROOM 1 |
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| Friday 4:00 - 5:15pm ROOM 2 |
Diamond Harnesses by John Handcock This rope bondage panel is all about wearable decorative rope. We will create 2 different diamond patterns; the Karada Hishi and the Half Hitch Hishi. These two diamond patterns will create different looks on the body. Time allowing, we will review the double coin knot which can be used to add more style to the Karada Hishi. This panel does not require any prior knowledge of rope bondage to participate. If you would like to participant hands on rather than just observe bring a long 2-3 pieces of 7-8m/25-30ft rope (limited supplies will be available to borrow). Those participating will be doing so under the principles of R.A.C.K. (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). |
| Friday 7:00 - 8:15pm ROOM 1 |
Interactive Consent (Not A Lecture) by Pup Kase Come experience what consent feels like from both sides. This is an interactive class designed not only to present tools for negotiating consent, but to put them in to live and engaging practice. Together we will feel the strength we have in both asking for and responding to many different situations. Are you ready to experience more than just the yes and no? |
| Friday 7:00 - 8:15pm ROOM 2 |
Working with Barbed Wire Hands-On by JustRob In this hands-on workshop you will learn how to clean, prepare, and work with barbed wire for play. There will be no demo of play with barbed wire. All of the necessary equipment and materials will be provided. The goal of this workshop is for everyone to walk away with hands-on knowledge of how to safely prepare barbed wire for play. As such, there will be an opportunity for each participant to cut, clean, and manipulate barbed wire. |
| Saturday 9:30 - 10:45am ROOM 1 |
Face Flogging by CarmillaJBX Enhancing Safety, Connection & Catharsis This workshop explores the art and technique of face flogging with a focus on safety, consent, and emotional awareness. Participants will learn proper impact placement, communication cues, and aftercare strategies to create intense, transformative experiences. Emphasis is placed on building trust, enhancing connection, and navigating cathartic release in a controlled, supportive environment. |
| Saturday 9:30 - 10:45am ROOM 2 |
For Your Own Good: Using Punishment in Your BDSM Relationships by Laura Antoniou Ah, punishment " the art of making someone feel bad for their own good. In authority-based relationships, it's more than a dramatic moment or a stern lecture; when used well, it can build trust, strengthen obedience, and even spark intimacy (after all, everyone loves a productive performance review). We'll explore why, how, and if punishment belongs in your dynamic "examining its myths, purposes, and limits, and how to craft consequences that fit the situation and the personalities involved. You'll also learn why discipline and punishment aren't synonyms, and why you can't have the latter without a solid foundation of the former. Because when done right, punishment isn't cruel "it's constructive. And sometimes, it's just what both of you need for purely educational purposes, of course. |
| Saturday 11:15 - 12:30pm ROOM 1 |
Cultivating Communal Care Through Kink by Sir Free & boy Bennie Through this workshop we are going to explore kink and BDSM practices and how they influence personal identity and development. We'll then consider how we can apply those identities and personal growth to utilize them in our everyday lives to facilitate communal care. We will utilize various experiential techniques to foster introspection, intimacy and connection. |
| Saturday 11:15 - 12:30pm ROOM 2 |
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| Saturday 2:15 - 3:30pm ROOM 1 |
Leather mentorship and community by Master J. Tebias and Sir Demarcus This is a class that touches on the similarities of mentorship, which is in direct connection with community. I break down the similarities between the two components along with the series of questions for the class. I end the class with key Takeaway points and food for thought. Even from the book, I think that this class would be far more informative in person than actual reading the manual script. |
| Saturday 2:15 - 3:30pm ROOM 2 |
Speculums, Sounds, and Scalpels, Oh My! Infiltrating the Mind and Body with Medical Play by Master Velvet |
| Saturday 4:00 - 5:15pm ROOM 1 |
Needle Play 101: Exploring the Art of Blood and Sensation by SourPatchSadist |
| Saturday 4:00 - 5:15pm ROOM 2 |
Sacred Kink - Creating Ecstatic BDSM by Mufasa Ali In this workshop we will explore the powerful intersection of kink, spirituality, and emotional well-being. In this brave, sexy, and affirming space, we will explore beyond the physical to discover how your kink practices can become a pathway to self-discovery, spiritual growth, and genuine connection. We'll delve into key principles like treating consent as a sacred act "moving beyond "yes/no" to explore intentional, attuned communication. You'll learn how to integrate mindfulness into your play, grounding yourself in the present moment to enhance sensation and connection. We'll also experiment with common kink archetypes"“like Dom/sub, Top/Bottom, switch, and more"“not as fixed roles, but as tools for understanding different facets of yourself and your partner(s). We'll create a strong container with consent and an exploration of limits. You will practice hands-on tools for crafting a scene. This isn't about religion. It's about exploring kink with intention, opening yourself up to the flow, and inviting something deeper. Kink can be about enriching your experience, healing past wounds, and finding the sacred within"“if you surrender to it. Come as you are, and leave with new insights and practical tools to deepen your intimacy with yourself and others. Don't just play "connect on a profound level and allow yourself to go wherever it takes you! |
| Saturday 5:15 - 5:45pm ROOM 1 |
CLOSING CEREMONY Endnote with Daddy Daun & slavegirl j Sir DaddyDaun began Her leather journey in the early 90’s when She followed Her interest in service. Since then She has served Her communities as a presenter, Den Daddy, panelist, mentor, tally Master, stage manager, volunteer, judge, keynote speaker, board member, titleholder and Prince XXXVIII of the Imperial Sovereign Rose Court. slavegirl j was raised in the Leather community by queer, kinky, POC parents which cultivated a deep connection to service. she has been on staff for FLAME Conference, SPLF, MsC WORLDWIDE, BUTCH Voices and serves as the Regional Rep Director for MAsT International. Together T/they serve as Northwest Master/slave 2016, International Master/slave 2017/2021, and are staff members for Northwest Leather Celebration. When not presenting or working, T/they can be found enjoying T/their home in Colorado with T/their cat Spirit and dog Tater Tot. |