"The Why, Not The What" Intergenerational Tension in Leather & Kink by JustRob
One of the major impediments to growth of the Leather and Kink communities it seems, is the tension between generations. "The Old Guard" vs. "The New Guard". "TNG" vs "TOG". However, you want to frame it. But in my view it doesn't have to be this way, and as I see it there is a fundamental disconnect at the heart of much of this tension that I believe can be addressed. In this discussion I discuss what I believe is at the heart of this tension and invite the attendees to brainstorm with me about ways in which this tension can be overcome.
A Discussion of Flesh Hooks and Other Body-based Rituals by Goddess Tonya and Sir Nick
Whether you are considering attending a hook pull, are curious about the origins of modern body stress rituals, or want to know what a body stress ritual is, we hope you will join us for an in depth discussion. We will discuss ancient body stress rituals and the cultures where they began. We will then move to modern body stress rituals and the history of hook pulls in our leather lineage. We also discuss the differences between inspiration, collaboration, and appropriation. We do not know everything there is to know about this topic. We do our best to educate ourselves on the cultural origins of body stress rituals where information is available.
Active Needle Bottoming by SweetheartLou
Active needle bottoming involves the proactive participation and advocacy of needle bottoms throughout the entirety of a scene, encompassing the stages before, during, and after. This class provides a comprehensive exploration of concerns from the bottom's perspective, emphasizing the importance of supporting pre-established safety protocols and maintaining clear consent boundaries throughout the experience. By fostering a deeper understanding of safety measures and effective communication between tops and bottoms, this course aims to empower needle bottoms to actively monitor and address safety concerns as they arise. Participants will learn strategies to enhance their role in the scene while prioritizing personal safety and well-being, contributing to a more informed and responsible approach to needle play and related activities.
Alignment vs Obedience by Liza Sibley and Jody, Liza's slave
Liza and her slave, Jody, will guide a gently facilitated discussion of the differences and similarities between "alignment of wills" and "obedience" in hierarchical relationships. We will discuss whether these concepts are mutually exclusive or complementary. We will also examine ways both of these approaches can fortify and enhance our dynamics. And, we will look at how these approaches might enhance the dynamics, and possibly how they might undermine our dynamics.
All Good Things Come to an End: Proactive & Protective Measures for the end of a Authority Transfer Dynamic by Mara
We all like to think that our dynamics have a sense of permanence. It makes it easier to make ourselves open and vulnerable if we think that our service and sacrifices have some long-term payoffs. The deeper into authority transfer you go the more S-types are expected to relinquish in our dynamics. All good things must come to an end. Even if it is till death do you part. Eventually, ALL of our dynamics will end, and far too often the S-type is left in less-than-ideal circumstances to pick up and continue with their lives. How can we protect ourselves against the inevitable? Are there certain obligations that people on the left side of the slash have to ensure that their partners are able to continue without them? How much responsibility do they take for all of the authority they have claimed? We will explore various options, from emotional safeguards, to financial considerations to legal documents both parties can use to ensure that when the relationship ends, we can all move forward in a healthy manner.
Amping Up Your Game by Trix and Sox
I want to play a game! The sizzling smell of ozone will stun you. From static electricity to a specially designed electric chair, we will play til they shut off the power. We will zippity zap- tip tap our way through this fun trivia while we try to make the lights flicker! We will keep you grounded in safety while we play!
Anchor points and up lines by Rogi
There is many different anchor points - Shibari rings, Climbers bear claws, Honey combs (never used that one), bamboo poll, metal poll of the yoga swing, .... I will cover the Shibari ring, Bear claw (small and big) with carbines, bamboo poll. How to manage your up lines for different anchor points and how to secure them. How to use the quick release for up lines.
Asian & Pasifika Roundtable Caucus by NotQuiteAsian
This discussion will provide a space for individuals from Pasifika, South Asian, Southeast Asian, West Asian, Southwest Asian, East Asian, and Multiracial Asian backgrounds to explore their unique experiences at the intersection of their cultural identities and Leather/kink practices. We will discuss topics such as cultural influences, challenges, and empowerment, creating a supportive and inclusive environment. The aim is to foster understanding, build connections, and celebrate the diverse perspectives within these communities, promoting a sense of belonging and empowerment. This year the roundtable is limited to those of Asian, Pasifika, and/or pan Asian diaspora descent only (please self-select). This is not a space solely for East Asians; SWANA individuals whose heritage/culture make this discussion relevant are intended to be part of this space. Hosted by Asian & Pasifika Representation in Leather (APRiL).
Baggage & Issues & Trauma, Oh My! The struggle is real. by Mara
Roughly 20% of the US Population struggles with mental illness every year (4% with serious conditions) and 45% of folx deal with chronic health conditions. And then we add in all of our neuro-spiciness and it can feel like we are too "broken" or too "burdensome" to serve someone. For many of us in the lifestyle, juggling a host of bad brain and body days is a day-to-day reality. How can we map our triggers, traumas, and physical limitations to set us up for the best chances for a successful power exchange/authority transfer (PEAT) relationship? What tools can we use to communicate with our partners how and what we need in terms of expectation management? What accommodation do we have a right to so we can stay healthy? What do we need for support on our less-than-great days? Living with illness can pose unique challenges, but it doesn't have to prohibit or limit us from amazing and fulfilling authority transfer relationships. Some tips and tricks and a lot of self-honesty go a very long way to making almost any dynamic work! Content Warning: Open and frank discussion of violence and sexual trauma.
BDSM And Event Etiquette by Kippy
Join us for an engaging and informative class designed for individuals interested in exploring the world of BDSM while understanding the essential etiquette for events and gatherings within the community. This class will cover the foundations of BDSM practices, emphasizing consent, communication, and safety. Participants will learn about the importance of aftercare, negotiation techniques, and the various dynamics that can exist within BDSM relationships.
BDSM ER: It's Not a Scene by Sir Guy
Your fire play session was hotter than expected. Now someone got burned. What do you do? Your knife play was cutting edge and your bottom got the point. Now you're in for some unexpected blood play. What do you do? Your breath play scene took your bottom's breath away, literally. What can you do to breathe life into the scene? Being safe and secure is important when we do scenes, but accidents ca happen. How do we handle these common medical emergencies? Sir Guy, a Ground Zero first responder, and retired EMS supervisor will review medical emergencies, show you what questions to ask before you play, what to do when things go wrong, and how to deal with first responders. In addition, he will give tips on creating a first aid kit.
BDSM/Kink & The Law by Sir Valentino
Is BDSM/kink legal? Can you be sued over it? Can you be arrested for it? Could you lose your job? What should you do, or not do, if you ARE sued or arrested? If your rights have been violated, what should you do? If you're accused, what should you do? Can being involved in bdsm/kink affect your child custody rights? What are your legal rights when it comes to bdsm/kink? DO you have any? What does that NDA or contract REALLY mean? Will it hold up in court? How does the law view consent? Wanna know the answer to all these questions? Here it is..... IT DEPENDS, no seriously, that's the answer to every question on the list. What does it depend on? Well, come to this class and find out. Some of the answers are guaranteed to surprise you. Bring your own questions with you and I'll do my best to answer them (with a proper legal disclaimer of course). There's a lot of misconceptions on how the law deals with BDsM/kink. We are gonna do our best to sift fact from fiction and have a good time doing it.
Beginner BDSM by The Boy Noble and Boy MJ
BDSM beginner for the leather boy. Topics of discussion would be on understanding BDSM Dynamics. What is being a leatherboy all about? Fashion of the leatherboy. How to Petition. Mentor and Guarddianship. Finding a Daddy or Sir. Collars. Daddy Wants another boy. Will I ever become a dominant. Cigars and the leatherboy. The art of Bootblacking and worshiping.
Best of Both Worlds: Give Me Pain But Make It Sexy! by slave sunflower
People oftentimes hear the word masochist and associate it strictly to just experiencing painful and torturous play. However, there are those that not only enjoy the pain but also love sensuality added to the mix. This interactive class talks about both worlds individually, and provides demos on ways to involve both for a little extra fun!
Beyond the Red; Crafting your CnC Dynamic by katblk
This isn't the kind of thing you want to F%$@ around and find out about. Sure, it sounds hot in theory but did you really take the time to contemplate what CnC actually entails? Beyond the red takes participants through the ethics, risks, and considerations of engaging in cnc as play or as a dynamic. From there we will go over diffrent styles of cnc, how to navigate limits and ultimately how to craft/build the cnc dymaic of your desires, Both Tops and bottoms can benifit from this class as both perspectives will be covered. Participants will also get a glance into how this cam look in a dynamic in even the most subtle ways. **this class comes with the trigger warning for strong language and themes**
BIPOC Caucus by Mufasa Ali
Looking for more diversity in your community? Hoping to learn more about the unique experiences of people of color? Then come out to the People of Color Caucus at SELF and connect with POCs in your community. Let's connect together as we collaborate and celebrate each other's unique perspectives. We will host an unfiltered, open discussion on the issues, challenges, and rewards encountered by POCs in the community. This meeting is open to anyone. Even if you don't identify as a person of color, you are still welcome to attend to learn more about the unique experiences of other members within the community. Let's talk and connect together while celebrating People of Color in our communities.
Black Leather: An Evolving History of BIPOC People in the Leather/Kink/BDSM Lifestyle by Sir Guy
When we hear of the histories of BDSM and Leather, the conversations often go to the early cis white gay male community or some European houses, but the fact of the matter is, just like American history, People of Color have had a long and storied history in the BDSM and Leather communities, not just as participants but as leaders. This history is rich and needs to be explored. Sir Guy will be your tour guide as we take the first steps into exploring various aspects of the histories of People of Color in Leather and BDSM.
Bootblack Academy 101 with Goldie_Locx, and Lucian Raven
Bootblack Academy 201 with SpankCake and Daisy Blue
Bound to Get Into It by Cyborg44 and Sassy25
Bondage, in the BDSM subculture, is the practice of consensually tying, binding, or restraining a partner for erotic, aesthetic, or somatosensory stimulation. A partner may be physically restrained in a variety of ways, including the use of rope, cuffs, bondage tape, or self-adhering bandage. In this 1.5-hour long class we will cover basic forms of bondage from the bedroom to the dungeon. We will touch on safety and techniques while reminding you that there is so much more to bondage than rope.
Bound to Thrill: The Art of Rope and Sensation Play by Jamie Joy
Join us for an immersive space of connection and discovery where the art of being bound meets the thrill of sensation in this interactive and engaging workshop on rope and sensation play. Through live demonstration and hands-on practice, you will learn essential rope skills and how to integrate a variety of sensory elements to enhance your play. Topics will include safety tips, communication, sensual and sadistic techniques, basic ties and harnesses, temperature play, electro stimulation, knife play, orgasm control, and more! Create a deeper connection with yourself and your partner(s) by exploring new dimensions of pleasure. This class is open to all genders, sexualities, and experience levels. Come and play!
Breaking Boundaries, Finding Joy: A Workshop for Newcomers in Kink by Mrs. Dee Supreme and Starr Supreme
This transformative workshop invites you to explore the vibrant realms of Kink, BDSM, and Leather without predefined roles. Unpack expectations, embrace fluid identities, and practice mindfulness to stay present. Learn effective communication and enjoy personal narratives from experienced community members. Whether you're new to these communities or seeking a positive space for exploration, join us for interactive activities and open dialogue. Celebrate the beauty of diverse paths and discover the joy in your unique journey of becoming.
Building a Leather House by TheSir Dee Heart
This is class will give instructions on how to build a House in the Leather community. It will contain what information should go into putting together your manual that will help you with your leather house. How to write your Mission statement , come up with your core principles and values , pick your house colors, write your house mantra etc
Caning for Vegetarians by Dex
Few percussion implements mark as easily or strike fear into the hearts of bottoms as the cane. The cane is an elegant instrument: its flexibility, variations in diameter all produce a wide range of sensations from sensual to frankly painful. A broad spectrum of caning techniques will be demonstrated. The feet are the foundation of the body. They allow us to stand, walk and run. Bastinado involves striking a bottom on the soles of their feet with a stick. The foot a place where nerve endings are close to the surface and therefore especially susceptible to pain and pleasure. When bastinado is combined with precision striking and reflexology techniques it can combine a pain and pleasure balance that extends beyond the scene and has healing effects. Success! Find the foot's sweet spot, learn to transfer energy to the root chakra and shazam a footgasm is possible. The first 20 attendees at this workshop will receive a cane as a token. 90 min.
Chain Bondage for Beginners by Cecilia T. Winters / CTW and Fischer Garrett / Mister
Chains are a kink staple that evoke images of dungeons and being trapped, feelings of cold and hard restraint, and power and control. This class is a discussion of risks and safety using chains for bondage, a demonstration of various metal connectors, and how to maintain tension and make single columns using chain with labbing time after each demonstration. Great for self- and partnered-bondage participants and absolute beginners! Participants are welcome to bring their own chain; the presenters will have plastic chain available to borrow to practice with during the workshop. If you wish to purchase your own starter chain kit ahead of time, the presenters recommend two 6-feet lengths of 1/4-inch proof coil zinc-plated chain and four to six 1/4-inch stainless steel screw-pin anchor shackles.
Chain Suspension Demonstration by Cecilia T. Winters / CTW and Fischer Garrett / Mister
Chain that cold, heavy, unforgiving material. You've learned to bind yourself or your partner in it. You've lashed them and learned tension and body manipulation. The next challenge is using chain to fly! This class includes a brief discussion of risks and safety information including chain bondage suspension safety, a demonstration of creating single columns and tensioning techniques and spreading weight through downlines. A demonstration of a simple suspension sequence will follow. Previously attending any prior introduction or iteration of Chain Bondage for Beginners is required.
Cigar Service and Etiquette: Beginner Level by boy dave/dave
This course is a "hands on course" and explores the beginning level of cigar service and etiquette for those who wish to provide cigar service or for those who wish to experience and receive cigar service. We will explore the Do's and Don'ts of the art of experiencing cigars. Participants will learn about the equipment needed for cigar service and smoking and we will also explore the proper ways to cut, light, relight, smoke, and extinguish and unfished cigar along with some other aspects of cigar smoking and service. We'll take a look at the various types of cigars along with selecting, buying, and the storing of cigars. Cigars and basic equipment such as cutters and punches will be provided but participants are welcome and encouraged to bring both their own cigars and equipment. Please note, although we will discuss the proper lighting of a cigar, due to hotel rules/regulations and fire hazards etc. , we will not actually practice the lighting of cigars.
Circling: Discovering Yourself through the Eyes of Others by Master Velvet
The practice of Circling has been referred to as Interrelational Meditation. It is a vulnerable hyperawareness and sharing of how we are experiencing the moment of now, as well as an opportunity to connect with others' experience of the same moment. In this introduction to circling, we will cultivate a connection to ourselves and one another as we drop into the present moment in our bodies, minds, and souls. We will finish the class by discussing how some of the skills honed in the practice can be used to improve and enhance our power exchange relationships.
Consensual Self Exploration by Pup Kase
Have you given yourself consent to enjoy your SELF? Come discuss what it truly means to say 'yes' to your own body. Following a discussion we will take a full body self exploration. This class is very introspective and personal. Please note, during the self exploration portion of this class you will blindfold yourself. This is not a voyeurs event. You will spend time self blindfolded and exploring your own body with your hands, please make sure you are comfortable enough doing so in this setting.
Consent Based Bootblacking:The Trauma Informed Bootblack by Bootblack Allen
Welcome to our Consent-Based Bootblacking Class. This engaging and educational class is designed to introduce participants to the art of bootblacking while emphasizing consent, communication, and a safe, enjoyable experience for all involved. Bootblacking is a cherished tradition within the Leather Community, where individuals engage in the practice of caring for and shining boots and other leather goods. In this workshop, we'll explore the techniques, tools, and principles of bootblacking in a consent-focused environment. By the end of this workshop, participants will have a solid foundation in the art of bootblacking, incorporating consent and communication into their practice. Whether you're a newcomer to bootblacking or seeking to enhance your skills, this workshop is a safe and welcoming space to learn, grow, and connect. Join us for an enriching experience that combines tradition, respect, and creativity.
Consent then--now. The controversy and evolution. by Miss LitaLove
This presentation will provide insights into how attitudes toward consent have changed over the years, emphasizing the importance of understanding both past and present dynamics to prevent violations. Join Miss Lita for a thought-provoking conversation to foster awareness, promote respectful dialogue, and enhance our understanding of consent in today's world.
Cultivating Power Dynamics through Inner Work - Intensive by Master Leather Redux and raea
Embark on an enriching voyage of self-discovery with this intensive. By navigating the labyrinth of your thoughts, emotions, and habits, you'll unearth the secret to nourish genuine, rewarding Power Dynamics. This course offers a blend of guided meditations, group dialogues, and engaging activities. Participants are encouraged to voice their insights, creating an atmosphere of collective learning and camaraderie.
Deep Dive into the Backside by Domina Alluriah
All things anal ! WHAT?!? This class with both demystify and explain all the important things you need to know if you are curious about or want to explore more intensive anal sex and play. Questions from the audience are encouraged as well as healthy discussion. Whether you are very familiar, barely beginning, or curious and afraid, this class can help ! Safety information, anatomy, important toy storage, as well as lubricants, cleanliness, and concerns will be covered and explained.
Doing Strange Things with Strangers- Pre Negotiation for Pick up play in today's climate by Master Madame Navia
Explore the personal responsibilities for pre-negotiation and the not-so-sexy Foreplay needed for both sides of the slash when considering pick up play scenes. We will look at special questions and ideas that don't always happen in negotiations. Learn how to play and keep yourself safe with a new or short-term playmate and protect yourself from violations or allegations of violations.
Dom-ly Doms and Simpering Subs: Overcoming D/s Stereotypes by Marilyn and Rio, Marilyn's slave
Society and the Leather community have conspired to paint pictures in our heads about what it means to be Dominants and submissives. And people in these roles are plagued with being "not enough" or "not doing it right". In this class we'll discuss the range of what it means to be on either side of slash, "Imposter Syndrome," how to find your authentic voice, and how to let go of the "should be" stereotypes.
Domination from the female Perspective by TheSir Dee Heart
This class will cover what goes into being a female dominant. I will discuss the good bad and ugly of being a female dominant. I will discuss from beginning the leather journey and then process they goes into being covered as a Sir and a Master. This class will be beneficial to all but especially females trying to dive into female domination.
DUNGEONS OF THE FUTURE by Switch Jake and BreeBugs
More a concept class, this class discusses what future dungeons could look like. Purely speculative it goes over with the audience what toys we could see in the future and what kinks could emerge in the next 10-20 years. What technologies will we be using 10, 20 or 30 years from now for BDSM and Sex? What will BDSM look like?
Embody, Attune, Connect- Contact dance (90 min) by Davey/ Dswitch
Contact dance is an amazing pathway to attunement, interoception, and embodying our YES as we build consent in practices such as; power exchange, primal states, intimacy, vulnerability, partner dance and movement. Davey leads this somatic meditation and improvisational movement class for solo and partner connection. We train our nervous systems, deep listening skills, develop compassion, focus our intentions, and practice embodiment as we learn to listen to ourselves, to the connection we have with the earth, and with another person during easeful movement. We also learn ways to stay in our own consent and respect each other's as we navigate touch, eye contact, and body movement. This class can give you more consent and connection skills to use with your partners as well as on any dancefloor. This class is not about moves or choreography, it is accessible to all bodies, and can be done seated or lying down as well. Come to bring yourself back to center, or come to explore brave space authentic movement!
Embracing Your Dark Side by Master Varii
Whips and chains and blood, oh my! In our community words like "sadist", and "masochist" are common. Activities such as "objectification", "caning", "whipping", "blood play", "artistic cutting", "branding", and more, are often said with anticipation, intense arousal, and glee from both the giver and receiver. What is YOUR dark side and how do you grow to embrace it safely?
Energy Balancing For Activists, Educators, and Everyone Else by Anandalila
As we move through the world, we generate and expend our own energies, as well as collect and deflect the energy of others. This can be renewing and enriching or depleting and depressing, depending on the energy and our experience of it. This session will offer tools based on tantric hatha yoga to clear stale energy, cultivate fresh energy, and prevent burnout for people of all shapes, sizes, genders, and abilities.
Eroticism through artistic vet wrap mummification. by Miss LitaLove
Join Miss LitaLove for an engaging demo with the use of vet wrap as an artistic tool in mummification, blending creativity with sensual erotic touch and breathing. Participants will witness how art and erotic mummification can intertwine to create a unique and enriching experience. Come ready to explore, learn, and connect!
Ethical Bratting by Bunny Girl
Bratting has always had its place in the kink and BDSM community. Somewhere in between obedience and defiance. Stay awhile and discuss where that place is and how it can work for your dynamic. We will talk about how to better identify boundaries to avoid potential land mines, signaling when and where brattiness is acceptable, and negotiating consequences to keep the game fun. Please come with questions because I will come with examples. Hope to see you in class.
Everyday Service by Evie Lupine
Whomst among Us hath not mused on the delicate, refined beauty of Service? Unfortunately, it is difficult to go from not knowing how to fold a napkin to suddenly being able to set a perfect Continental-style formal dining table for 12 overnight. This class is focused on developing a manageable service routine for D/s dynamics of all types and non-relationship play. And yes, gasp, casual service. Even if you have kids, two jobs, or a million obligations " we will discuss how to make time for service and how to find your style. Brats, pets, slaves, and s-types of all kinds are welcome, as well as the left side of the slash. Not sure if service is your thing? This class might just change your mind. No previous service experience is required.
Exploring the Spectrum of Touch by E. Saint
In this class, we will delve into the art of sensation play, a type of BDSM play that focuses on the different physical sensations and stimuli that can be used to enhance arousal, pleasure, or pain. We will cover a wide range of touch-based sensations, from Thuddy, Stingy, Slashy, Pokey, Pinchey, Scratchy, Sucky, Sticky, Clingy, Burney, and beyond. We will also discuss the psychological and emotional aspects of sensation play, including the role of trust, communication, and power dynamics. Throughout the class, we will demonstrate and practice different techniques and tools that can be used to create various types of sensations, such as floggers, paddles, crops, claws, feathers, ice, hot wax, and more. We will explore the differences and nuances between each type of sensation, and offer tips on how to combine them in a scene to create a unique and satisfying experience.
Facing Flaws: Battling Dragons, and Surrender by dee and Master Jim
We started as a romantic story of love at first sight: the courtship of a maiden by her heroic knight. But knights battle dragons and sometimes demons. Jim and dee will talk about flaws: naming them, owning them, and working together within the dynamic to address them. They will have an honest conversation about their own journey tackling dragons and encourage others to look honestly at their own flaws and resulting unintended consequences. They will share a tale of addressing one particular flaw and how doing the deep work of connection and surrender while owning and naming the flaw led to a strengthening of their dynamic.
Fetish Play by Simbah ONYX
Toy and Nipple pay. demonstrate certain toys and techniques that can be used. Go over the safe precautions, The negotiation, provide websites to order toys. give a demonstration of toy play on the nipples with control device. Discuss before, during, and aftercare. Have a Q & A on nipple and toy play. provide literature.
Film Screening: Margin/Margin: QTBIPOC in Leather by Heather Raquel
The world premier screening of the documentary film, Margin/Magin By Heather Raquel. This film surveys several QTBIPOC voices in Leather Community in order to showed the varied experiences and intersections that exist while navigating kink spaces. The interviews create discussion that open pathways of connection to various body politic intersections and show how patriarchal white supremacy, and heteronormativity continue to inflict communities rage and small.
Fisting for Femmes, Faggots, and Freaks by Jamie Joy
Are you curious about fisting? Do you love to fist or be fisted? Come join us for an unforgettable learning experience. This space is perfect for fisting newbies as well as folks looking to stretch their game. Get ready to dive deep into the tenants of fisting, hole-istic preparation, techniques, double penetration, aftercare, and more! There will be a LIVE DEMONSTRATION to guide participants through the art of fisting with a talented demo bottom. Bring your hands, holes, & red hankies - and get ready for a fistful of fun!
Fit For Duty: Are You Fit For Play by slavegirl nik daring
Part 1 of a comprehensive 3-part series dedicated to promoting health and wellness within BDSM, Kink, and Swing communities, led by an experienced healthcare professional. This series delves into critical topics such as assessing physical and mental well-being, encouraging safe practices, and preserving health in kink spaces, while providing valuable insights and guidance tailored to these unique lifestyles
Flow into power exchange- using contact dance skills to convey power and mood by Davey/ Dswitch
Think of this class as a way to juice up interaction with your partners during scene time or in everyday touch or connection. Utilizing the lessons and exercises that contact dance can teach us, we adapt it to flowing and moving with our partners and conveying mood. If you are a person who loves touch, who gets warmed up by physicality, has a hard time staying embodied or getting out of your head, this might be for you! We will learn ways to stay in our own consent and respect each other's as we navigate touch, eye contact, and body movement. This class can give you more consent and connection skills to use with your partners as well as on any dancefloor. We will also explore how to lead and follow from eye contact to physical touch, into simple methods to create a desired effect within pre negotiated containers. This class is not about moves or choreography, it is accessible to all bodies, and can be done seated or lying down as well. Come to explore and create more ways to communicate!
FORCED ORGASMS by Switch Jake and BreeBugs
The act of giving your partner as many orgasms as they can handle and then five more. At first, they will praise you, an hour from now they will curse your name. Come learn how to not just get your partner off but also enjoy them begging you to stop. It will be the only time you will ever hear "please sir/ma'am! Please! No more orgasms!" This class can also feature a live demo.
From Swinger to Kink to Leather: Its all the same Lifestyle, isn't it? by Mr. Papi and Slave hunni
A Beginners session for those that are new to BDSM M/s D/S dynamics, and the Leather culture. The course would be intended for beginners. those that are both new to conferences as well as fairly new to the BDSM kink and leather lifestyle. Offer information tackle and debunk some of the common myths as well as share stories/experiences from presenters and attendees.
Generation X to Millennials: M/s between Generations - the Trials, Tribulations, and Triumphs. by Mr. Papi and Slave hunni
The class with talk about the struggles that come with generational differences. touching on everything from Culture, background education, and how each piece can play a role in the development of the a dynamic. the course will pull from current sociological research as well as personal stories from the presenters and provide ways to work toward a positive and successful M/s relationship
Give the Lady a Hand by Hardy Haberman
Often thought of as extreme, the erotic potential of vaginal fisting is something that can be both intimate and ecstatic. Safety and anatomical concerns are addressed as well as an exploration of techniques to bring maximum pleasure to a partner. There will be a live demo and this class is not suggested for those sensitive to nudity.
He Shoots, He Scores: An Introduction to Sports Gear Play by Duke
This workshop dispels myths surrounding sports gear and the play that comes along with it. Topics covered will include how one can break into sports gear play, who can enjoy sports gear play, and the ways in which others view this kink. It is the ultimate primer for the person who has always been curious about it, and wants to try it.
Here Kitty, Kitty by Cyborg44 and Sassy25
How well do you know your kitty? Does it face the front or hide in back? Is it an innie or an outie? Does that matter when seeking pleasure? How about squirting? Squirting is a topic that has been widely discussed and debated over the years and it's still not fully understood but wow is it awesome when it happens! In this class we will learn all about the complex and amazing vulva as well as some tips and tricks to help guide your body (or your partner's) through some amazing sensations and maybe even a whole new type of orgasm!
High Protocol Intensive by Snow and Djinni
Learn the physical demands of high protocol service as well as ways around common issues and protocol differences. find out what it takes to set a formal table, carry a tray and serve, walk with grace, kneel with effectively and effortlessly. And the proper modifications for physical disabilities. Small events or Big ones we can help you learn the basics for both.
Household Manual for Intentional and Inspirational Living - Personal and/or Within Your Dynamic by The Goddess and Slave Sill
We often hear about Household Manuals, but how do we actually create one? We talk about alignment, but how do we know we are moving consistently towards our highest and best or heading in the same direction and growing together within our dynamics? The Goddess and Slave Sill will explore ways to retake control of your own personal growth and/or the growth of your dynamic. The class goal is to help you learn how to hardwire your strengths and passions so they drive your vision of your future. Attendees will leave the intensive with a workbook containing a customized, actionable household manual.
How to grow the leather community by Max In Leather
This would be a invitation to any and all leather folk that would love to see this community and lifestyle last the strains of time. How do we all stand for what we believe and yet stand together when the times call? Can the things of the past ready us for the fights of tomorrow? How do we welcome all trying to start there journey and not gate keep? This are some of the things we would be covering.
How to make records for the archive by Heather Raquel
This workshop will guide participants through the process of recording personal/community stories to save for prosperity. Paperwork will be provided and we will together cull our individual histories in order to make deposits in local LGBTQ+ archives, as well as, LA&M. Lists of options will be available and help will be offered to make digital deposits during the session.
How You Make Them Feel by Carlton and slave_sasha
Are you looking to build a thriving local group? Discover the power of creating a positive and welcoming atmosphere. This interactive workshop will equip you with practical strategies to foster a sense of belonging, safety, and inclusion among your members. Learn how to cultivate an environment where everyone feels valued and inspired to return time and again. Join us to unlock the secrets to a successful and thriving organization!
I can get my own glass of water - Accepting service by Stephan and sweetwisteria
Sometimes we just want to do things for ourselves. As Masters, Mistresses, Dominants, we need to remember we are in a style of relationship where authority and power are not equal. In this class we will discuss authority based relationships and how the left side of the slash (Master/Mistress/Dominant) works to accept service from the right side of the slash. We will discuss pitfalls of being served, how to explore the joy of being served and service, and how to show appreciation for the services given. We will also explore a few types of service and give examples of rules, rituals and protocols to show that we appreciate the person giving service.
If You Build It, They Will Cum: How to REALLY Build a Sex Room by Andre Shakti
Anyone can find four walls to get frisky within, but what if you gave yourself permission to dream BIG? What if, instead of coming to an interior designer with your wildest sex room fantasies, you consulted a sex worker with 17+ years of experience in turning even the drabbest, most limited surroundings into comfortable, accessible spaces where you can get your freak on in style (and safety)! Join veteran professional slut Andre Shakti as she unpacks possibilities for ALL budgets and ALL individuals, focusing on WHO you are and HOW you fuck. Folks should attend bearing an intentional space in mind to transform even if it's just a broom closet! as well as any particular goals you have for that space. The freaky possibilities are truly endless! By the end of this session, participants will feel creatively inspired and motivated to create the "sex room" of their dreams, seeing it as an accessible goal and having accumulated valuable resources and information helpful in the actualization of such a space.
Impact Inside the Vacuum by Master Lily Latex
Vacuum bondage is currently one of the most dynamic and versatile forms of restraint in the BDSM lifestyle. However, most people don't know where to start. How to set them up, how to use them as risk awarely and harm preventatively as possible, how to properly clean, care for, and even repair them themselves within reason; and how to make the most of their experience with them in general. Come and learn how you can incorporate vacuum bondage into your scenes. From impact play and which types of implements are or aren't safe to be used on the Latex Vac-bondage Furniture, to sensual temperature play, to sensory deprivation, and bondage to CBT - this course is aimed at showing you how to tailor-make a vacuum bondage scene that fits your kinks. Experience various types of toys - including a vacbed and vacuum cube and see how two dimensional and three-dimensional vacuum bondage can fundamentally alter your scene dynamics, as well as changing the feel of the impact you experience. If you want to participate, then please come comfortably dressed, please do not wear metal or other items that will rip the latex, and please arrive without any products on your skin or hair that may be able to damage the latex. Also, please consult your medical provider to ensure that you don't have a latex allergy prior to participating in this class!
Impact play by SIR Rai
This impact play worship is open to all levels of attendees. During this workshop I will cover a demonstration and education of flogging, spanking, paddling, and caning. I will open the floor to question and answers, and if time allows, I will have the attendees split up in groups for a hands on experience on what they’ve learned.
Inclusive Kink: A Guide to Accessibility by Just Jordan and Jay
This panel will demonstrate what it means to be kinky and differently abled. This conversation will help guide the community in a more accessible limitless possibility. Boundaries and consent are always important. Having an ailment or being differently abled should never exclude someone from feeling sexy and having fun while being themselves.
Interactive Consent (Not A Lecture) by Pup Kase
Come experience what consent feels like from both sides. This is an interactive class designed not only to present tools for negotiating consent, but to put them in to live and engaging practice. Together we will feel the strength we have in both asking for and responding to many different situations. Are you ready to experience more than just the yes and no?
Introduction to Sounding by GoddessMW and Her_Jim
Male urethral sounding will be demonstrated using the NAS (Negotiation, Assessment, and Safety) process. SOUND advice will be offered on types of instruments, safe & creative play, negotiation (for both the top and bottom), as well as post care of your recipient and instruments. Curiosity and questions are welcomed and encouraged.
Journey to Ownership: Overcoming Challenges & Finding Connection by slavegirl nik daring
Part 1 of a relationship building series tailored for the unique dynamics of BDSM/Kink/Leather spaces, this series provides tools and techniques for healthy, respectful, and fulfilling interactions. Each class focuses on crucial interpersonal skills, empowering you to navigate your kink journey and relationships with confidence and empathy
Kink and Flourishing by jess
Many kinksters have documented positive impacts of kink on their wellbeing or even healing from past trauma through kink, but this topic has not been explored empirically. The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance (TASHRA) has recently finished collecting data for a new project, the Kink and Flourishing Study, which explored the different positive impacts kink has on people's mental health! In this class, you'll learn about kink practices that influence wellbeing, factors that promote or inhibit positive relationships with kink, and theories of why healing from trauma through kink occurs!
Kink Safety 1 on 1. by Sir Trell Walters
We will discuss safety issues from our experiences and provide guidance on navigating platforms to identify red flags, ensure safety, and meet needs. Topics will include safe words, safe play negotiations, and healthy partnerships, explored through examples, show-and-tell, and community safety discussions, with the goal of leaving this class with more wisdom and confidence to identify and control your sexual journey.
Leather - It's Not What You Wear, It's Who You Are! by Master Leather Redux and raea
Have you ever wondered what the leather lifestyle is about? Where did it come from? What does it "mean" to be leather? This class brings some light into origins, history and what it means today. For many it is a "calling" and yes, it is hot, dirty leather sex too. From the beginning with the gay sexual rebels to all the gender queer fuckery today, leather is accessible to those who connect with it.
Leather Care 101 AND Leather Care Lab: Unveil the Secrets of TLC for Your Leather by Bootblack Allen
Dive into the world of gay leather culture and master the art of preserving and enhancing your leather gear. Explore cleaning techniques, conditioning rituals, and protective measures tailored for the unique needs of leather within the LGBTQ+ community. Learn to celebrate and care for leather garments, accessories, and gear. Perfect for leather enthusiasts within the queer community, this class is your guide to maintaining the allure and vibrancy of your leather possessions. Join us to embrace the beauty of gay leather culture and ensure your gear remains an expression of pride, passion, and enduring elegance.
LEATHER INTERIOR - FINDING YOUR PLACE IN LEATHER BY LOOKING WITHIN by Beast and echo
You are likely to get as many different answers to the question, "What is Leather" as you can find folks to ask. It has become a symbol, and as with many symbols, it has been left to the individual to add meaning and context. As a subculture, most agree on its beginnings and early history, but each of us that come into Leather brings our own unique perspective. In this discussion, Beast and echo facilitate a conversation unwinding our earliest exposure to Leather, how it impacted our understanding, and how that reflection can help us navigate a more authentic and fulfilling path.
Leatherwomen: Recognition, Impact, Measures of Success by Lady Catherine
We're going to explore leather culture and consider what a modernized, culturally conscious model might look like that fosters benefit for all. Anyone who feels they have a place in an inclusive womens community is welcome. Allies are also welcome but we will focus on the voices of women.
Literary Lust: Using Fiction to Build Your Reality by Trouvere le Fou and Chanteuse la Belle
One challenge to starting your Power Exchange Relationship is defining what you want. Expressing that desire is the next challenge. Fiction can help with both. Examples of relationship structure and emotional intent can be taken from many sources. We will discuss the excellent Marketplace series as a source of inspiration. Also included are other staples of erotic fiction such as The Story of O and Cecilia Tan's writings. There is room for some science fiction in there and the odd German philosopher. Even 50 Shades can have some good words. Which words reach you?
M/s and the Bonsai by Master Leo
Just like the bonsai, a slave can take many months or even years to grow and develop but it's the intent along the journey that a Master finds so interesting and fulfilling. It is through attention, precise training, pruning, watering, feeding and communicating that the slave is shaped and grown to what the Master desires.
ME, MYSELF, AND SELF-SABOTAGE - CHALLENGING OUR MINDSETS by Beast and echo
Beast and echo will dive into the importance of mindset and how we often fall into self-sabotage, justification, and gathering allies when in conflict, and how understanding our thought process, defense mechanisms, and survival techniques we have picked up along the way are stopping us from living our truest and happiest lives. Using some tools from The Arbinger Institute along with others they have gathered along the way. Beast and echo will share their past experiences and how these techniques have changed not only their dynamic but their lives, and offer you a new perspective and some valuable tools.
Medical Procedures for the Kinkster by DX Victoria Xy
There are a lot of different ways to play kinky with medical devices. As we joyfully pervert these medical devices for our pleasure, let's provide good practice for the safety of everyone. In this class we will discuss the difference between sterile, clean, and dirty fields, procedures for cleaning areas and equipment, needs for containing fluids and "dirty" equipment, and other tips and tricks to be safe in your sadomasochistic endeavors. Learn from someone that as been a medical professional for nearly 20 years and safety professional for over 15 years.
Mentoring Can be for Everyone by Master Lily
Back in 1993, when I first began this wonderful journey, mentorship was a very common and readily available thing. I was extraordinarily fortunate to be approached and then accepted by Goddess Lakshimi (Ms. World Leather 2003) who I'm still learning from to this day; along with the incredible leather family I belong to thanks to this initial relationship/mentorship! I've since had the pleasure and privilege of having a multitude of mentees over the years, and I have many of those relationships currently. I've even had the great honor of being a contributor to one of their books, "Leather Mentorship "by: (Master) J. Tebias Perry, which people may want to read before taking this class Mentorship comes with a lot of responsibility, but it's so rewarding that I can attest that it's worth it. It's also not just a thing that one has to be a D-M-Type to do, all types of lifestyle practitioners have been known to make great mentors!
Naked Yoga by Anandalila
Stretch your mind and free your body with a gentle, all levels tantric hatha yoga practice for people of all shapes, sizes, genders, and abilities. This gentle class is a combination of slow, flowing movements and longer holds. Everyone is welcome, from Absolute Beginners to Those with More Experience. It's a clothing-optional practice, so you can get as naked as you want to be. Bring your yoga mat or a beach towel to practice on, an extra towel, and your water bottle.
Navigating Mental Health & Self Care in Little Space: Tools for Wellness by bella
This workshop explores the intersection of mental health, self care and little space, providing practical tools to help participants maintain emotional well-being while actively engaging in alternative lifestyles. We'll discuss common mental health challenges within the littles community, including stigma, relationship dynamics, and the emotional contribution of the little & their caregivers. Attendees will learn strategies to manage stress, recognize triggers, and build a personalized toolkit for maintaining balance.
Negotiation 911 - HELP I WANNA PLAY by Bratty Azzissin
So you wanna play for the first time or haven't played in public in forever. How do you find someone, what do you say, what do you need to know to be safe and still have a great time? Let's get you out there. We will talk about specific skills, questions, and steps to take in real time. We will explore this from the perspective of both tops and bottoms, and differentiate between pick up play, and pre-negotiated scenes. Participants will leave being able to set up scenes right away if they so choose. Workshop Outline: -Vetting 101 -Picking a safe play partner -Being a responsible play partner -Limits yours or theirs -Public vs private play
Organic Protocols and Rituals by Liza Sibley and Jody, Liza's slave
Ideally, protocols and rituals serve to enhance and enrich the M/s and D/s dynamics. Using rituals from books or created by other people could serve this purpose, but can almost as easily detract from or even damage the dynamic. Using a gently guided discussion, we will explore how to let rituals and protocols organically emerge from the relationship.
Owning a little by Slave Chy and Master Castle
A Master/slave dynamic and a Caregiver/little relationship. When we first joined the community we were told we would have to pick one and leave the other behind. Join us as we discuss how we pulled ourselves out of the box that we felt we had to fit in. To instead learn to blend these two dynamics together into a beautiful dynamic of 10yrs. This conversation is geared to help you explore whether or not you have created your own box. While providing tools to help you expand and explore.
P3- Protocols, Positions, Presentations by Slave Chy and Master Castle
In this class we discuss what is the difference between protocols and rituals. How to implement effective and lasting protocol practices. As well as how to create protocols that serve you. In the second half of the class we encourage participation as we demonstrate and run through some common positions, transitions and presentations. During which we will discuss how these positions can be utilized in your daily life both with and without a partner. As well as how to adapt positions for all body types and abilities.
Parents in the Rabbit Hole - Balance and Self Care by Bratty Azzissin
Balance is everything. Parenting and the lifestyle do not seem to go hand and hand. How do we allow ourselves the self care that kink, conferences, events, play parties, etc provide - while responsibly parenting? How can you indulge and keep your children safe and/ or informed? Who needs to know what? Parents just wanna have fun. Workshop Outline: -Planning ahead - Location location location -Boundaries with partners -Little ones -Older children -All in the family
Peach hip harness by Rogi
How to tie, where to pay attention, and how to load the peach hip harness. Make that booty look even better. This hip harness can be used for suspension or tie it for booty to pop up for impact. This is just one of many different hip harnesses that can be used for many different loading points - backward, forward or side suspension. Or just to tie it on your partner and let them walk around to show off.
Perfectly Posed: Exploring Doll and Dollmaker Dynamics by Will Delight and CinnFull Delight
Step into "Perfectly Posed," where dolls become vessels of expression and power. We'll explore various dolls, from porcelain figures to rag dolls, and the emotional and narrative dynamics between doll and dollmaker. Discover how these forms challenge traditional beauty and provoke deeper thought. Join us in celebrating the artistry and identity behind every pose.
Pet Archetypes by Bunny Girl
There are so many ways your pet head space effects how you play. Putting a name to it can help better understand how. Does your puppy like to do tricks or are they more of a go fetch kind of pupper? Do you want your pony to be a show pony or a breeder? Let's discuss on the different pet archetypes and what they may entail.
Pet Play And You by Kippy
Delve into pet play, a unique kink that has evolved from its origins as a form of punishment into a distinct practice with various meanings and styles. What exactly is pet play? In this class, we will explore the different types of play and the various roles that pets can embody, enriching your understanding of this fascinating aspect of BDSM.
Playing with Pain by Hardy Haberman
Call it an intense stimulation, unpleasant sensations, or a cathartic catalyst. Whatever you call it the reality is pain. It can be a motivating force or a consequence but in the world of BDSM it is a key to unlocking some of the most amazing experiences imaginable. Though many people who enjoy BDSM will tell you that they are not "into pain", they forget that in almost any kind of activity in the dungeon or bedroom, pain plays a significant role. From a playful swat of an erotic spanking to an out-of-body experience brought on through an intense temporary piercing, pain can produce amazing effects. Playing with Pain explores the often overlooked secrets of how people process pain in an erotic setting and the dynamic power exchange involved. It also explains how intense stimulation can be applied in precise and measured ways.
PLAYING WITH SHARP THINGS by DA KOLLECTOR
Playing with Sharp Things Summary: Sensual and yet deadly, the knife is one of the oldest tools known to man. Knife play is consensual BDSM edgeplay involving knives, daggers, and swords as a source of physical and mental stimulation. This class will explore what knife play is and how it can be applied in several ways across kinks and play. Topics Include: What is knife play? A modern components of a knife Considering Risk Negotiating Knife play Choosing a knife Safety and cleaning Develop the skill/Technique Aftercare
Playing with the Brain: Mind Fuckery by DX Victoria Xy
Do you want to add an extra level to torture? Or perhaps torture someone without even laying a finger on them? Let's play with the brain! In this class, you'll learn how to play with someone's perception and reality by using their 5 senses against them. From various stressors to misdirection, learn sadistic ways to mess with someone's head. Also learn how to negotiate explicit consent without giving it away, how to set the scene up for success, and to avoid triggers, and causing harm. *Please note this is an intermediate to advance level play class.
Pony Play Primer: An Intro for the Equine-Inclined by Pony Girl Ginger and Master Varii
This isn't your standard intro class, rather a deep dive into pony play, covering roles, power dynamics, handling, training, headspace, sex, finding other ponies, herds, resources and more. Great for the curious, those just starting out or the seasoned pro, this class is perfect for ponies, handlers and pony fans just looking for how to interact with ponies!
Postural Assessment of the Upper Body for Bondage and Impact Play by Nixa
This class explores potential postural issues of the upper body, focusing on identifying potential nerve impingements and muscular imbalances that might be aggravated or contribute to nerve damage during play and bondage scenes. Information in this class is not meant to discourage certain forms of play or bondage, but to help folx in planning their risk profiles before a scene.
Pound it Out: Body Drumming by Mufasa Ali
Body drumming is a rhythmic form of impact play. In this session you will learn the basics of how to strike and drum, the types of equipment used, safety concerns, how to use the music beats to enhance your scene, the dynamics of energy exchange and then you'll get a chance to experience body drumming for yourself as a top or bottom.
Primal: Sex, Blood, and Mythology by Garou
Despite the growing popularity of primal play, it remains a difficult style to discuss. The headspace and playstyle are broad, encompassing everything from the gentlest to the most intense of playstyles - so what truly unifies them? How do we talk about what makes primal play primal? This class explores a framework for discussing, understanding, and exploring primal play for both novice and experienced players. We will cover archetypes, scenes, dynamics, and how to feed every aspect of our innermost selves.
QPR, Mental Health Crisis Conversations for Kinksters by Leigh and Joey
This class is to prepare anyone to approach loved ones, strangers, and community members in discussion about their mental wellbeing. QPR (Question, Persuade, Refer) includes an information session on MH crisis, especially life-or-death decisions, followed by learning together how one can open the door to these conversations. Kink and lgbtqia-specific data included. We will practice, first with the structure and language of empathy, then in vulnerable conversation about our own experiences.
Quilting Your History by Pony Girl Ginger and Master Varii
Join us for an engaging exploration of the Leather Quilt, a powerful symbol of identity and community within leather culture. This class will delve into the history of the Leather Quilt, its creation, and its significance in celebrating the diversity and resilience of leather communities. We will begin with an overview of the Leather Quilt's origins, tracing its development as a meaningful artifact in the leather community. Next, we will discuss the cultural significance of the Leather Quilt, exploring how it fosters connection among individuals and serves as a canvas for stories and experiences. Participants will learn about the various patches contributed by individuals and organizations, each telling a unique story and reflecting the values of the leather community. In the second half of the class, we will open the floor for participants to share their personal experiences related to the quilt and community. Attendees are encouraged to discuss the histories of their own houses and clubs, illustrating the rich tapestry of narratives that exist within this vibrant culture. This interactive segment aims to highlight the bonds formed through shared interests and collective memories. The class will conclude with a reflective discussion on the importance of preserving leather culture and the ongoing efforts to honor the legacy of the people represented by the Quilt. Participants will leave with a deeper appreciation for the quilt's role in fostering community connections and celebrating individual stories.
Resistance is Welcome by Tomo
Resistance is a natural occurrence in a relationship that exchanges authority. How we manage resistance as both Master and slave can either divide us or provide an opportunity for engagement. In this class, we will explore resistance from the Master's perspective and discuss how as leaders we react to resistance and how we can manage it from a place of power and authority. We will also explore why resistance happens from the slave's viewpoint and suggest that rather than offer resistance, we can communicate and then surrender our struggle. Join Tomo for this engaging discussion and discover how we might transform perceived opposition in authority exchange relationships to growth.
Roots of Ecstasy: Energy Play or Roots of Ecstasy: Energy Play with Rope by Beyondnewwmatt
Energy play is a play that provides a way to amplify the sensations you experience with your partner(s) so the focus is on the connection and the flow of energy instead of facilitating a temporary peak of pleasure. This class is designed to cover the flow of energy through play. Binding ourselves with what beats through our hearts emotions and our roots. Let's step on the journey, and guide our energy in ecstasy
Rope as Problem Solving by redhoneyropes and Cherry Moon
One of the biggest things we hear folks struggle with rope is how to adapt and be creative. Whether you're just starting out or have been tying for ages, this class will help you understand soft skills for rope. We will go over a problem-solving framework and how to approach rope with an open mindset. We'll discuss how to make decisions on the go while tying and finding your "why" so you can start a tie with intent. Following this discussion, we will break out into skill-level based groups and give you a chance to problem solve hands-on with provided prompts. How would you tie the lower body in a way that the knees can't touch? There are no wrong answers, so tie your wildest ideas! Class goals: Leave feeling empowered to troubleshoot actively while tying. Break out of a pattern-centered mindset in rope. Evaluate "good" or "bad" rope based on your own metrics of success. Understand how to tie with intention and find your "why." Practice problem-solving and thinking outside of the box with rope.
Safety and proper technique in impact play by The Sadistic Bunny
What I'll be focusing on in this workshop safety in impact play. Different toys use different techniques and muscle groups. We'll be discussing several different toys and how to throw them safely and effectively. Whether it's a riding crop or heavy flogger, you'll learn proper technique, so that you won't cause harm to whomever you're topping. I'll be demonstrating toys of various skill levels.
Sapphic Sensations: Navigating Sensual Impact Play with an emphasis on Over-the-Knee Spanking by Mrs. Dee Supreme and Starr Supreme
This engaging session is designed to foster an environment where participants can learn about the importance of communication, establish boundaries, and delve into the art of over-the-knee spanking. Our discussion covers various aspects, including types of impact play, safety guidelines, and incorporating fun and creativity through sensation play. Join us for an informative and playful exploration of this intimate practice, and leave with a deeper understanding of how to engage in consensual and enjoyable over-the-knee spanking experiences.
Self Tie Tips n Tricks Skillshare by redhoneyropes and Cherry Moon
Want a dedicated space to practice a new tie or brush up on old skills? Join us for this peer-based rope skill share to learn and connect together. While this class is centered around self-tying, everyone is encouraged to join regardless of experience level and role. Peer-sharing is encouraged for this lab-centric class. Ask a question to the room, offer to teach a tie you love to someone next to you, or just enjoy tying in a safe space. We will have several mini lessons prepared for break out groups, from fundamentals to more advanced self ties, catering to the needs of beginner and intermediate-level students. So bring your rope and ideas and show up ready to share! Class goals: Lab ties in a safe space. Find connection and solidarity amongst rope peers. Receive constructive feedback on your rope projects. Share your knowledge and insight with others.
Sensational Edgeplay with KNIVES by Daddi Cole (LoreHouse) and Jade Rose (House Blue Flame)
The temples and throat, cheeks and chest, ankles and arches: Oh the places on the knife's blade can go! Lean in as we talk spine, edge, guard, and tang. See for yourself how running your knife with skill and intention across sensitive skin creates chillingly erotic physical and psychological sensations. Back-arching, flinches, moans: edgy enjoyment from terror to tears. Daddi Cole knows just how to trick the mind into alternating adrenaline rushes with immobilizing sexual tension. Jade Rose brings the absolute perfect canvas and chemistry to bring the beauty of knife play to its climax.
Sensual Servitude: Finding the Connection Between you and your D Type Again by slave sunflower
Service is one of the many moving parts incorporated into dynamics. But let's be honest, it's still work! Sometimes it gets boring and loses it luster and at times the services are just being done for the sake of doing them. This interactive class is all about finding fun, sexy, creative ways to make and keep service not only a wonderful experience for the D Type for us as s types as well!
Shadow the Leader by Master Leo
What better person to teach what pleases the Master, is the Master. Just as we shadow someone when we get a new job, the similarities are there. In this class we will discuss the above and the how - Keeping a Masters Manual for the slave. Keeping a slaves resume to encourage the slaves abilities and continual education.
Shadowy Circus: A Twisted Journey into Dark Age Play by Will Delight and CinnFull Delight
**TRIGGER WARNING:** This class covers sensitive topics like sex, force play, and bullying, which may be triggering. "Shadowy Circus" explores Dark Age Play, including its definition, negotiation and consent, and creative scene ideas. Engage in discussions and learn how to safely enjoy this complex play.
Shea Butter Baby Service by katblk
If a shea butter body worship service sounds like your jam, then this is the class for you. SBBS is a class rooted in Blk service. Whats the difference you ask? Culture. SBBS aims to teach the foundation of service for self and others while remaining authentic to yourself and culture. Attendees will gain a strong foundation in building their service type and also gather techniques for body , hair and skin care specifically for melanated bodies. Black and BIPOC folx are prioritized in this space, however others are welcome to attend to gain perspective and understanding.
Single and in search of.... Something. Matching without desperation in 2025 by Master Madame Navia
Class discussions will explore dynamics, labels and trends in matching up in the kink scene and offer tips for positive safe connections. Topics such as approaching a person of interest, chivalry, expressing relationship desires, and old school petition techniques will be addressed among other safety considerations. The goal is that by the end of the class you can identify what you are really looking for, how to express it, and how to find it with them with confidence.
So You Want to Serve... by b_wylde
This class is a roundtable discussion about why we enjoy serving, what motivates us to serve and how we choose when and who to serve. We will talk about reasoning, motives, red flags, the need for vetting, negotiation and more. We will briefly discuss multiple submissive dynamics, CNC and the pros and cons of being a service oriented submissive. Bring your thoughts on service and let's talk it over.
Soul to Sole by Trix and Sox
Gather around us as we embark on an exhilarating journey through the rich and textured world of leather! Let us dive deep into the heart and soul of what it truly means to start a household, to nurture the delicate threads that weave families together, and to honor the treasured traditions that echo through the ages. But oh, let's not be bound by the past! We will bravely explore how these beautiful customs can be reshaped, molded, and lovingly tweaked to fit the vibrant tapestry of our own lives! Come and we will intertwine the captivating history of leather with the fresh, innovative ideas of TNG, as we embark on a collective quest to create something utterly unique, something that resonates with the very essence of who we are
Sounding by Sir Jonathan
The practice of sounding in a safe and sanitary way to get the most out of the experience. How to get set up for success in your scene and have fun along the way. Sounding like most medical play leans on the bit extreme, as does any kink play that involves insertion of anything into anyone. Let's discuss and discover how we can add sounding into your scenes.
Spilling the Tea on Service by OYK
Service is one of the core values of this Leather life that we lead. Domestic service, bootblacking, tea service so many possibilities, right?! Well, what are you supposed to do when you can hardly get out of bed, let alone make one? Join us for a dynamic community discussion that will hopefully help begin to reframe our beliefs and practices surrounding service. We will open with the foundational question "What is service?" and explore some relevant myths and misconceptions. In addition to collectively sharing personal stories in a supportive space we will discuss the journey to service self-discovery; internal and external challenges to service; how to advocate for self when serving others; and the importance of self-care when serving. Finally, the discussion will close with ways the collective community make service more intentional, inclusive, and empowering for all.
Staples aren't just for the office! by nice_girl
Medical staples: Want to have a pretty corset? How about a little predicament bondage? Or possibly, a bit of some sadistic fun? This demo will cover how to have all of those things for yourself, as well as safety basics including what should be covered during negotiations, supplies and where to get them, and how to make your experience with staples fun, pretty, or even painful!
Strapped (Level Up Your Strap Game) by Andre Shakti
People strap it on for a variety of reasons: it feels good, because playing with power dynamics is sexy, for double penetration, for variety in gender expression, to achieve a permanent hard-on, and because watching your partner bob their head up and down on your cock is pretty awesome no matter what sex organs you were born with! Andre Shakti is the queen of cock confidence, and whether you're a strap-on novice or a longtime aficionado, she's ready to up your erotic ante! In this workshop we will cover: How to talk to your partner(s) about wanting to explore strap-on play How to source the best gear and sex accessories for your strap-on experience Inspiration for incorporating dirty talk, role play and gender fuckery into your dynamic Basic anatomy and tips for enhancing physical strap-on pleasure Exuding confidence while strapping it on Connecting to your strap A variety of strap-on positions that are inclusive of larger and disabled bodies, & MORE!
Styles of Leadership by Tomo
In relationships that exchange authority, understanding each deeply other is important. One of the aspects to explore and examine is the leadership style of the Master or Dominant. Leadership styles come in many forms and to identify what your style may be helpful information to share with those who belong to you. Conversely, recognizing and understanding your Master or Dominant's style can be helpful to your to surrender with joy. This class will discuss various leadership styles and the impact each method has on hierarchical relationships.
Subtle Dynamics by Damascus and demir
Have you been curious about a 24/7 dynamic, but think you couldn't get away with it due to living with various age ranged family members? Work in a corporate setting? Little privacy? Long distance time apart? Master Damascus and his slave Demir aim to help folks get creative in maintaining a consistent dynamic in plain sight, in an open discussion format with attendee participation, though it is of course not at all required!
Tethered and Torment: A Fusion of Shibari & Sadomasochism by Beyondnewwmatt
Sadists, Masochists and Sadomasochists, lend me your ears! And anything else your happy to provide. Step into the raw and commanding world of being an ass hole with rope, where traditional rope bondage meets the edge of intensity with dickhood. This workshop delves into the more assertive and challenging aspects of Shibari & Rope Predicaments. And will focus on techniques that combine precision, control, and emotional assholeness which will impact powerful and delicious experiences.
The (Decidedly Unsexy) Art and Science of Kink & Fetish Leadership by Dominion ONYX
Whether your organization is 20 days or 20 years old, a Program Management Life Cycle-based approach to Kink or Fetish leadership can take your organization to another level. Discussions will include strategic planning and design thinking, designing a continuous improvement framework, creating repeatable processes, succession planning, and how to keep the membership and stakeholders motivated, and how to put the sexy BACK in kink leadership.
The Art and Science of Humiliation by Dominion ONYX
How many times has a sub come to you and said they wanted to be humiliated? Or how many times have you told someone you wanted to be humiliated, without a clear understanding of what that entails? You’ll be asked to stretch your imagination as we explore the concept of humiliation, what it looks like and how to define it, and the forms that humiliation takes. Whether you are preparing for your first humiliation scene or your 50th, you’ll walk away with some new and exciting ideas and the tools you need to make your next scene your best scene.
The Art of the Singletail by Sir Valentino
If you have ever been curious about Singletails in any capacity, this class is for you! . Ever wanted to know how to do impact play with a singletail? Curious about sensation play or whipping sensitive parts? Is the Singletail Whip the only singletail? Come find out. We will also be discussing some common misconceptions about singletails and their severity. Everyone's welcome to bring their own if they have them. We'll have fun and de-mystify these crazy whip thingies all the kids are talking about. Even if you have no experience I guarantee by the end of this class you'll be able to run a scene with almost any singletail you pick up.
The Dog Has More Rights Than Me by Stephan and sweetwisteria
Long term 24/7 relationships take on interesting twists and turns. In this conversation we will discuss what a long term relationship with total power exchange can look like. What are pitfalls and how to avoid them. And we will explore when a submissive or slave has given up so much power that even the non-humans in a house has more rights and responsibilities.
The Flawed Master and the Imperfect slave: Elevating Your Dynamic Through Vulnerability by The Goddess and Slave Sill
We speak about wanting and needing transparency in order to succeed in our dynamic. As Masters, we feel driven to be omnipotent, omniscient, and all-powerful. As slaves, we want to epitomize perfection in all things. The idea of making mistakes, being flawed, imperfect in any way is anathema. We don't wish to show our "ugly parts." How can we truly have an authority-transfer environment when we don't entrust all of ourselves to our partner (or show them who we truly are)? How long can we pretend to be "perfect?" How does one serve an "imperfect" and "flawed" Master? How do you serve from a place of disappointment? How does a Master lead from a place of disappointment? Becoming a fully-faceted self-actualized individual requires having integrity. Integrity is defined as "knowing and accepting one's self." To the extent we hide who we are, we cripple our own capacity to become wholly immersed in our dynamic. "Acceptance" is a two-way street. And, it begins by having the courage to be seen.
The Impact of Play: BDSM and Your Lymphatic System by Nixa
Appropriate for all S&m and bondage tracks, this class explores our second major fluid system, the lymphatic system, and the impact that S & m and bondage can have on this system. Information presented in this class is not meant to discourage any sort of play, nor replace professional medical advice, rather it's meant as another tool to use when assessing our risk profiles, and those of our partners.
The Language of Love by Trouvere le Fou and Chanteuse la Belle
No, it isn't French. Or Italian. It is the specific words that make us feel loved. Or unloved. This is an exploration of not just our spoken language of love but the actual vocabulary we want used. Participatory, bring a notebook. Includes both discussion and exercises. If you have a partner/partners in mind bring them too.
The Power of Words in the Lifestyle by nice_girl
Words and language are one of our most powerful tools. They can be even more powerful in the Lifestyle or in a power exchange relationship. In this discussion, we are going to talk about the power of words in the lifestyle including things such as labels, titles, the timing and the tone in which words are spoken, who says those words, speech restrictions, dirty talk, and more! This interactive discussion will make you think about words - both how you use them and how they are used for you.
The Science of BDSM by Taylor
Scientists have begun to place BDSM under the microscope, producing theories that range from the insightful to the ridiculous. "The Science of BDSM" will explore the history of scientific research on BDSM, from early attempts by psychiatrists to pathologize sadism and masochism, to recent work by social scientists to understand the demographics of BDSM practitioners, the categories of BDSM activities, the hormonal effects of topping and bottoming, and the altered states of consciousness that BDSM activities sometimes produce.
The Strength and Courage of Submission: Knowing, understanding, and living your worth by boy dave/dave
In this class we will explore and delve into the strength and courage of submission. What does it mean to offer submission? How is submission a strength? How is it courageous? We'll talk about being a strong, smart, vocal, independent, self-directed, and confident individual and the struggles and rewards of also being submissive. The class will talk about relationships between those who offer submission and those who accept the submission and how submission, strength, and courage are all symbiotic to the submissive individual and the relationship. In this class, the submissive should walk away with a sense of how to balance and respect their submission and their courage. Those who receive/accept submission from others should walk away with a better understanding of accepting submission and the strength and courage that goes along with the submission.
The UnBully Journey: Responsive Engagement Starts with You! by Daddi Cole (LoreHouse) and Jade Rose (House Blue Flame)
Whether or not you're in a position of authority, you may find yourself responsible for groups of people from diverse backgrounds with a wide range of attitudes about acceptable behavior. This means you'll encounter bullies, some intentional and some oblivious. (Maybe even you bully or get bullied sometimes!) In nontraditional communities like ours, lines can become blurred, making it more challenging to identify and manage bullying. This intensive shows participants how to utilize AGenda Benda Justice's Unbully mapping to first hold ourselves accountable on a personal or micro level and then expand our UnBully skills incrementally. UnBully Journal available for purchase during or after class.
Trauma and Triggers for Event Orgs/DMs by AnnaBaxterLPC
What mental health indicators should event organizers and dungeon monitors be aware of when observing party goers? Are there special things to consider during negotiations? What does being triggered really mean? (Hint: most people on the net use it to mean something that makes them uncomfortable. That's not being triggered.) What are ways to handle the situation if a player becomes triggered during a scene? Anna Baxter, LPC answers these questions and other sensitive topics surrounding Triggers and Trauma within the BDSM/Kink/Leather lifestyle.
Under The Cover: Removing The Myths of Leather by Master "Daddy" Zulu
A deep dive into the myths of Leather including gifting of accesories in kink including, toys, uniforms, covers and vests. How to separate truth from fiction regarding the traiditons of the Leather Community. Providing tools to distinguish between truth in fiction in Leather History and Leatherfolk stories and ideas to create your own Leather Traditions.
Unfulfilling Play: Bratting from the Top by E. Saint
Have you ever been bratted? Been played or goaded by your bottom? I have the answer: Bratting FROM THE TOP. This not at all serious class centers on how to play in a way your bottom will never see coming. Turn the tables on them. Saint teaches and demonstrates techniques and toys that, when used correctly, leave the bratty bottom promising to be good. Join us for prolonged beatings with a straw, a spirited conquest play game called "The Hitting Game" and much, much more! Leave your stresses at the door and remember that this class is designed for fun and laughs
Up In Smoke - A cigar deep dive by WaywardSoul
Are you the type who likes to know just as much about the thing you're using as how to use it? We discuss cigar play a lot in our community, but what of the cigars themselves? If you're like me and are the type who wants a deep understanding of the things you're using in your play and not just how to have fun with it, I've designed this one for you because we'll be focusing on the cigars themselves in this one. What are they? How are they produced? What differentiates one from the other? And what's this I hear about a straight cut or a V cut? Humidors? Lighters? We'll be discussing all things cigar related and leaving you with a deeper understanding, and hopefully appreciation, of all things cigar.
Vetting and Negotiating for Caregivers and Littles by SnuggleNugget and TheDotingDaddy
Proper vetting and negotiation are an essential component in any BDSM scene or dynamic, but CG/l relationships offer some unique needs and challenges for both Bigs and Littles! Join us for a discussion on special considerations and strategies for safer and more thorough vetting and negotiating within the ageplay scene, and leave with practical tools you can implement today.
Violet Wand 101 by Sir Edgar and Slave Raven
Want to learn about the violet wand? The history, and the current uses. This is the class for you, we will go over basic safety of the wand and the fun you can have. We will talk about consent and how to start a scene.
Violet Wand Flogging by Sir Edgar and Slave Raven
How do you use a flogger in a violet wand scene. This is a 301 violet wand class.
What the BDSM Community Can Teach a Kinky World by Taylor
According to a recent study, well over 50% of people fantasize about BDSM. Unfortunately, one of the most popular sources of information on BDSM "Fifty Shades of Grey "hardly provides a good example of an ethical top, a self-aware bottom, or a healthy BDSM relationship. In this workshop, we'll take a look at research on the difficulties that afflict vanilla couples when they wrestle with dominance and submission, the problems that can arise (from unsatisfying intimacy to criminal sexual assault) when people are unwilling to openly discuss consent, and the ways than an unsatisfying sex life can undermine romantic relationships. We'll then share research on what the BDSM community can teach a naive but kinky world about consent, about negotiation, and about mindful and intentional power exchange.
WHATS WITH THE GROWLING? by DA KOLLECTOR
Primal Play - Everyone has heard about it, but do you really know what it is? We are going to dispel the myths and give you a better understanding of what primal play is by those that identify as Primal. This class is not only geared towards primals, but the lifestylers who love them and engage in any way. Topics Include: What does it mean to be Primal? Is Primal play pet play? Is everyone an animal? Is this Energy Play? What are the spiritual aspects of Primal play? What's with the growling? What does primal play look like?
Where Power Is In Play: Preventing and Recovering from Sexual Assault in Play by Duke
The relationship between kink and power necessarily blurs the lines around consent. When an individual is sexually assaulted in kinky play, there is a need for resources and guidance. This class seeks to begin to give those resources. The goal is to ensure that anyone in the community who has sexual assault perpetrated on them makes it through the experience a survivor of sexual assault.
Whip Intensive by Dex
Beginning with the End in Mind. The intensive begins with examination, exploration and making of whip crackers/poppers and different techniques for attaching them. The importance of cracker selection cannot be overemphasized in advanced whip play. Everyone will make a cracker that they use on their whip for the intensive workshop. To Crack or Not to Crack by Dex This intermediate singletail workshop will review the basic techniques and then progress to more advanced techniques. Development of a controlled puff. Identifying your preferred throwing style. Connecting footwork to changes on the other end of the whip. Dynamic throwing with a rhythm, changing planes, feathering techniques, and breaking rhythm. The environment, whip flurries, whip vignettes will be discussed. Select key techniques that you personally connect with and practice incorporating them into your own whip scenes. Rhythm Whips by Dex This workshop focuses on dynamic throws. Whip scenes can be both erotic and hypnotic. Throwing with a rhythm. Dynamically grounding a whip without breaking rhythm. Timing, feel, touch and marking time. Connecting with the music, and energy in the dungeon. The rhythm of the whip connects the whip thrower and whip catcher. Stall speed, delayed timing, and syncopation. To mark or not to mark? Intentionality in throwing. Feathering like a butterfly; nipple play; cock and ball play; and clitoral stimulation. Passion to orgasm, pleasure and pain from six feet away. What does it take to make a great whip scene? Chakras and Moving Energy with a Whip Demonstration and discussion of moving energy into the chakras. Progression of whip skills from basic throwing, controlled energy exchange, footwork, the whip as an extension of the arm, cracking the whip with core energy, moving energy with your mind. Two Handed Whip Work Sister whips, matched sets, throwing two handed, practice techniques and timing. Monthly Whip in the Dungeon Whip Practice (Zoom online practice) by Dex Attendees continue their honing their whip skills beyond SELF by attending free monthly whip practices. Details provided during the intensive.
Whips are friends not foe by NotQuiteAsian
A whip doesn't always have to be a painful experience although most people assume that because of the loud cracking sound it makes. A whip artist can make make a whip a very sensual and erotic tool for play or they can make it a very sadistic and scary implement of pain. We are going to go over whip basics, picking a whip for you, learn how to apply techniques for both aspects of sensual and sadistic play and when would be appropriate for either.
Wildside: Finding Your Primal Path by Evie Lupine
Have you ever wanted to get in touch with your animalistic side? Do you long to find a way to break up the monotony of hum-drum flogging and spanking scenes? Do you want to know how to tap into raw, deep vulnerability in your power exchange relationship? Primal might just be for you! This lecture-demo hybrid class explores the psychology behind primal play and how it can be adapted to work for scenes, dynamics, and D/s relationships. We'll also go over common areas of interest, like predator-prey dynamics and basic body manipulation & mapping techniques. (please note: this is not a rough body play class, and participation in any exercise is optional. Partners encouraged, but not required)
Wonders of Sensory play. by Sir Trell Walters
Wonders of Sensory class is a brief description on a beginner's class covers touch and sensory function, exploring sensory play topics through examples, demonstrations, and basic anatomy. It includes shared experiences, concern resolution, navigation guidance, and communication skill improvement for safe and creative sensory exploration.
Working with Barbed Wire Hands-On by JustRob
In this hands-on workshop you will learn how to clean, prepare, and work with barbed wire for play. There will be no demo of play with barbed wire. All of the necessary equipment and materials will be provided. The goal of this workshop is for everyone to walk away with hands-on knowledge of how to safely prepare barbed wire for play. As such, there will be an opportunity for each participant to cut, clean, and manipulate barbed wire.
You Kneel, I Kneel, We Serve by celina and Lucian Raven
This class is about service and an inner flow of energy and exchange from both parties to both satisfy, grow, and flourish a dynamic. As a mutually anticipatory service oriented Owner/property couple, we’ve learned that providing service to service can create an interesting exchange of emotion and vulnerability. We will explore how service creates a powerful and reciprocal flow of energy within a dynamic. By focusing on the connection of the dynamic, balance of energy, and respect for service, these skills will help enhance your dynamic connection.