A Discussion of Flesh Hooks and Other Body-based Rituals by Goddess Tonya and Sir Adam
This guided class explores the history and art of body stress rituals—including hook pulls, suspension, and piercing—as pathways of release, reverence, and transformation. We’ll discuss the cultural origins that shaped these sacred practices, engage the body as teacher, and—if time allows—offer a live demonstration honoring ritual, consent, and community connection.
Adult Nursing Relationships by Lady J and smigs
This 101 level class focuses on the basics of an Adult Nursing Relationship (ANR): wet vs dry nursing, how to (and who can!) induce lactation, potential health risks, etc. We will discuss the energy exchange that occurs during an ANR and how you can incorporate it into any D/s relationship, no matter which side of the slash brings the nipples.
Advanced Spanking - Building Scenes, Negotiations, Dynamics, and Aftercare by Octavian Maximus
This class is focused on how to build a spanking scene, navigate negotiations, integrate D/s dynamics & role-play, and aftercare. This class will help students understand how to build integrated spanking scenes that are focused on joy and safety. This class builds on the skills gained in the previous class in the series where spanking techniques, positions, and implements are introduced. Includes demonstrations and Q&A.
An interactive exploration of wants and needs by Sir Kraken and Starlight
M/s dynamics, when well done, produce a strong, intimate bond unlike any other relationship type.One aspect of achieving this is an understanding of each person’s wants and needs, and more basically, what wants and needs are, and the difference between the two. This class will discuss wants and needs, their differences, and be an interactive exploration, helping attendees identify them and communicate them to their partners.
Anxiety and Arousal: when your brain wont let you submit (or Dominate) by DocDeth
Anxiety and arousal often share space in the body—and in kink, that overlap can be both exhilarating and overwhelming. This class explores the neurological and psychological links between anxiety and sexual response, with a focus on kink roles and dynamics. Participants will identify common triggers, learn practical tools for nervous system regulation, and practice compassionate communication in moments of overwhelm. You'll leave with personalized strategies to stay embodied, manage anxiety, and honor your desires—without disconnecting from yourself or your partners.
Asian & Pasifika Roundtable Caucus by APRIL
This discussion will provide a space for individuals from Pasifika, South Asian, Southeast Asian, West Asian, Southwest Asian, East Asian, and Multiracial Asian backgrounds to explore their unique experiences at the intersection of their cultural identities and Leather/kink practices. We will discuss topics such as cultural influences, challenges, and empowerment, creating a supportive and inclusive environment. The aim is to foster understanding, build connections, and celebrate the diverse perspectives within these communities, promoting a sense of belonging and empowerment. This year the roundtable is limited to those of Asian, Pasifika, and/or pan Asian diaspora descent only (please self-select). This is not a space solely for East Asians; SWANA individuals whose heritage/culture make this discussion relevant are intended to be part of this space. Hosted by Asian & Pasifika Representation in Leather (APRiL).
Baby its cold in here! Liquid Nitrogen Branding and Flower Flogging by Lady Victoria and Archer
-320 degrees Fahrenheit Is that cold enough for you? What could possibly be more fun and sexy than branding your partner? Not much in my opinion. In this interactive class we will go over the safety and methods of playing with liquid nitrogen. Participants will have the opportunity to be branded with a variety of patterns or experience frozen flower flogging. Thank you very much to OztheThird and Luv4Oz for teaching me and helping me get addicted to another kink!
Basics of Latex: A guide to Rubber and Rubberists by CorgReporter
It's squeaky! It's shiny! It's... older than Western civilization? Latex can be quite intimidating and the lack of information regarding care and community can turn many off of ever trying the material. This class is here to dispel common misconceptions about latex, illuminate latex's darker history, and provide all the information you need to keep your latex around for a long time! Content Warning: Discussions of colonial genocide.
Bate with Me, Bro: Self Pleasure by LeathermanLynx (Intensive click for tickets)
This course is not a circle-jerk. Attendees will learn and discuss the unique and intensely intimate act of Masturbation. Men who have a propensity for The Bate will explore technique, environment, props, purpose and execution. A milking demo will follow to illustrate the course's discussion. We will focus on anatomy, headspace and the physical execution of a Solo Pleasure scene. Please note this is a class for Men only.
Beat to the Beat by Mistress Crush and Artemis of Zuyaa
Music Appreciation for Musically inclined. Some of us can only play to music. Music can transform energy in a space and lend energy to those who play. Music can set the pace and tone of emotions that one may want to convey in a scene. Lastly music can be a form of funishment in play as a tool in a scene. Learn how music can elevate and cultivate any space or experience.
Beauty of the Basics by UsagiPlease and MercuryBound
Join Usagi (they/them) and Mercury (any/all) for a deep dive into the fundamentals of rope bondage. This workshop will be focused on building strong foundational principles in order to understand both the how-to and why-to of rope essentials. We will explore practical and creative uses for intro-level knots and rope handling techniques, with the goal of attaining competency and confidence. For the more experienced ropey folks, we challenge you to bring your most impactful minimalist ties to share with everyone so we can de- and re-construct them together!
Bending, Breaking, Beginning Again by Master D and Passion
When you have been in a relationship for a long time, you don't expect to feel that you have to start again. In our case, one of us lost a lot of who they felt they were. We had to rebuild our M/s dynamic, retaining some of what we had, revising others, adding new parts and looking ahead to plan for eventualities. .We will discuss what we did wrong and what we did to make things better.
Beyond Comparison: Transforming jealousy into strength in M/s Dynamics by Master Dylan and slave tee
Jealousy and comparison can quietly erode even the strongest Master/slave dynamic. This workshop explores how these emotions arise, how they differ for Masters and slaves, and how to transform them into tools for communication, growth, and self-awareness. Participants will learn practical strategies to release chronic comparison and honor the unique strength of their dynamic.
BIONIC Kink Catch These Hands by Mistress Crush and Artemis of Zuyaa
Learn that the most valuable impact tool in your bag is your hand. Learn and practice techniques of impact using your hand and learn safety protocols for impact play with your hands. This class is the art of the beat down. How to use your hands to connect and impact your bottom while reducing the need to use implements that can increase the likelihood of injury.
BIPOC Caucus by Mufasa Ali
Looking for more diversity in your community? Hoping to learn more about the unique experiences of people of color? Then come out to the People of Color Caucus at SELF and connect with POCs in your community. Let's connect together as we collaborate and celebrate each other's unique perspectives. We will host an unfiltered, open discussion on the issues, challenges, and rewards encountered by POCs in the community. This meeting is open to anyone. Even if you don't identify as a person of color, you are still welcome to attend to learn more about the unique experiences of other members within the community. Let's talk and connect together while celebrating People of Color in our communities.
BIPOC Queer Caucus hosted by Empress Jessica Akanke
BIPOC, nonbinary, gender nonconformity and gender fluid, Oh My! Nowadays, terms can be very confusing and in a world that is ever evolving, change is always constant, and education is needed to support those who are among us. Join me at the BIPOC Queer caucus as we discuss what it means to us to be BIPOC, nonbinary, gender nonconforming and genderfluid in a community that is newly introduced to more than just two genders, how important visibility is, and to help open a dialogue.
BIPOC Women’s Caucus hosted by Mocha Breeze
Calling BIPOC Women and Female Allies to the dance floor! It's time to talk about the state of womanhood in the BIPOC community. What can be done to make more connections? What issues are we facing and how can we address/resolve them? Bring your questions and concerns, and let's connect with others to find suitable and workable solutions to improve!
Bootblack Academy 101 by Ms. Tori, Goldie_Locx, Master Lucian Raven, and Innocent Darlington (Intensive click for tickets)
BBA 101 2026 Description
For this intensive, your Bootblack Academy journey begins. On Friday, Ms. Tori, SE Bootblack 2016, and Goldie_Locx, Bootblack for House of Valor, will take you back in time to learn more about our illustrious Bootblack history. They will also discuss common and some not so common items found in a bootblack’s kit as well as the anatomy of a boot.
On Saturday, Master Lucian Raven, Midwest Master 2025 and ILW Bootblack Coordinator, will go deep into cleaning and conditioning oil tans.
On Sunday, Innocent, Northwest Bootblack 2023 and International Ms. Bootblack 2024 First Runner-Up, will help you learn the ins and outs of bringing out a high shine and working it up to a mirror shine. Bootblack Academy 101 is an 8+hour intensive.
Bootblack Academy 201 by Tidbit, Mycalyne, SpankCake, Sir Andrew, and Keriis (Intensive click for tickets)
BBA 201 2026 Description
For Bootblack Academy 201, based on your feedback, we are changing things up a little bit this year.
On Friday, TidBit, Southeast Bootblack 2018, and Mycalyne, Southeast Bootblack 2019 – 2023, will be exploring how to best manage a queue and make connections with your client while working the stands at a bar or an event. They will also discuss all things laces including aglet repair, different lacing patterns and how to flag with laces.
On Saturday, SpankCake, International Ms. Bootblack 2024, will be showing you how to repair minor and moderate damage commonly found on boots.
On Sunday, our ever popular class on Erotic Bootblacking with Sir Andrew, Southeast Bootblack 2008, Southeast Leatherfest Boy 2012, and Mr. Southeast Leatherfest 2024-2025, will make its return! Speaking of leather sexy times, Keriis, Southeast Bootblack 2024, will be exploring how to deal with bodily fluids on leather and general leather toy care. Bootblack Academy 201 is a 9 hour intensive!
Bootblack Academy 301 by Daisy Blue, Alistair, and Keriis (Intensive click for tickets)
New for 2026: SELF’s Bootblack Academy 301
This advanced 8+ hour intensive designed to deepen skills and support continued growth.
On Friday, we’re bringing back the popular Dyeing and Patina class in response to requests for more time to learn and practice these techniques. Daisy Blue will revisit the foundational principles taught in their BBA 201 (2025) class and provide expanded hands-on practice.
On Saturday, we are thrilled to welcome Alistair—Bootblack Europe 2020 and International Mr. Bootblack 2022—who will be joining us virtually from across the pond to share expert guidance on managing mold and mildew.
On Sunday, Keriis, SE Bootblack 2024, will cover care for non-leather items, including latex, rubber, canvas, and more. The weekend concludes with a moderated roundtable discussion led by Daisy Blue, titled “What’s Next,” guiding participants through thoughtful prompts to help shape the next steps in their bootblacking journey.
Building a Leather House: Foundations, Structure, and Legacy by TheSirDee Heart
Building a Leather House: Foundations, Structure, and Legacy This class will provide step-by-step guidance on how to build and sustain a Leather House within the community. We will explore the essential elements that go into creating a strong foundation, including developing a house manual to guide your members and structure your traditions. Participants will learn how to craft a meaningful mission statement, define core principles and values, and establish a vision that reflects the identity and purpose of their House. We will also discuss how to select house colors, design a mantra, and build the traditions that will give your Leather House a lasting presence. Whether you are beginning your journey as a leader, expanding an existing household, or simply curious about how Leather Houses are formed and maintained, this class offers practical tools and inspiration to help you create a legacy rooted in respect, purpose, and community.
Built to Break: Communication, Rupture & Repair in Hierarchical Relationships by Master Ray
The strongest dynamics bend, and sometimes they break. In this class, we explore how past relational trauma influences conflict, feedback, and emotional communication in authority-based relationships. You'll learn how to normalize rupture, anticipate it, and build tools for repair that deepen connection instead of eroding trust.We’ll unpack how past experiences shape our communication patterns, especially in relationships with intentional power imbalance. We’ll explore how trust is built or broken. You’ll learn how to recognize the deeper emotions underneath the conflict, and how to engage those moments with attunement and compassion, while staying true to our dynamics! Finally, we’ll look at how to apply these tools in real time, and how to engage in repair in ways that strengthen trust.
Bushido and Leather: Way of the Warrior, Way of the slave by Tomo
With over two-thirds of his life immersed in Japanese martial arts, Tomo has long walked a path shaped by Bushido—the “Way of the Warrior.” As a Leather person, Dominant, and slave, that influence runs deep, offering a framework of discipline, honor, and intentional service that reaches far beyond the martial arts and into the heart of Leather. In this class, we’ll explore the eight virtues of Bushido—Honor, Justice, Courage, Compassion, Respect, Integrity, Loyalty, and Self-Control—and consider how they can inform our Leather lives, our relationships, and our leadership. Whether you’re on a path of mastery, service, or something more fluid, these principles offer rich insight into how we show up for ourselves and for one another. This class is a conversation about values, alignment, and how ancient codes still speak to modern Leather. Come curious, come reflective, and leave with new language for what you likely already know to be true in your Leather heart.
Cold Steel, Hot Flesh: The Insertable, Sensual, and Secret Life of Chain by snow_leopard1
Chain, it’s not just for restraint. It’s texture, temperature, tension, and transformation. In this electrifying workshop, we’ll explore the erotic possibilities of chain play: from the cool caress across bare skin to the deep, weighty pull of connection. You’ll learn how to safely use chain for sensation scenes, structural bondage, decorative wear, and even insertable play. We’ll cover material types, cleaning, body-safe techniques, and creative ways to make your scenes unforgettable. Whether you crave the shimmer of steel, the drag of links against flesh, or the symbolic power of being bound by something beautiful and strong, this class invites you to feel every spark between the links and discover the secret life of chain.
Communication Breakdown by Master D and Passion
Communication is the base of every relationship including our relationships with other members of the community. We have worked on improving our communication for over 20 years and still struggle. We will discuss what has worked, what hasn't worked and what we still haven't found solutions for. We look forward to attendees adding their struggles and successes
Community Leadership by Domina Alluriah and nice_girl
Over their combined years of experience, our Co Presenters for this class, have served on boards or in groups as leaders and facilitators across the Gulf Coast. In their experience they have led or currently co lead groups centered on Leather, relationship Dynamics, their local communities, and more. This class will cover what it takes to be in leadership, how to effectively govern large and diverse groups of people, tackling conflict resolution, as well as how to avoid burnout, how to find support when needed, and what to do when tackling tough situations that don't personally resonate. Leadership is service to the community and is not exclusive to Masters and Dominants. We hope to impart some wisdom from personal leadership experience as well as possibly encourage others to consider becoming leaders when they feel the time is right for themselves.
Consent Assumptions: When PRICK and RACK Goes Wrong by Master Sa'Vage
This engaging and critical course dives into the pitfalls of consent assumptions within BDSM and kink activities, focusing on the principles of PRICK (Practiced, Reversible, Informed, Consensual, Kink) and RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink). Participants will explore real-world scenarios where these frameworks can falter, understand common misunderstandings, and learn vital strategies to prevent consent violations. Perfect for practitioners seeking to cultivate safer, more respectful play, this class emphasizes communication, boundaries, and ongoing consent to ensure positive and consensual experiences for all involved.
Consent in Total Power Exchange (TPE) Relationships by Madam Brianna Bunni Akanke and Empress Jessica Akanke
"Consent is the foundation of every healthy Total Power Exchange (TPE) relationship. This in-depth class explores how to establish, maintain, and renegotiate consent safely, ethically, and confidently within power exchange dynamics. Participants will gain a clear understanding of the nuances of consent, including its central role in creating trust, safety, and empowerment for all parties involved. Through discussion, practical exercises, and scenario-based learning, attendees will explore: • The critical importance of consent in TPE relationships and scenes • The different types of consent relevant to power exchange, including enthusiastic consent and consensual non-consent (CNC) • Strategies for establishing, maintaining, and renegotiating consent over time, ensuring that all interactions remain ethical and mutually fulfilling • Red flags and boundaries that indicate potential coercion, abuse, or ethical breaches By the end of this class, participants will have the knowledge and tools to navigate consent in TPE relationships with confidence and integrity. Whether you are a dominant, submissive, switch, or simply seeking to understand the principles of ethical power exchange, this class provides actionable insights to ensure every scene and dynamic is safe, consensual, and deeply empowering."
Coulrophilia by Phobos Onyx
The rise of the clowns. Coulrophilia is a sexual attraction to clowns, but in the kink world it can be so much more! From silly clowns to killer clowns, let’s explore a new meaning of FUN. From sad to exciting, a kinky clown is like the wild card in the Uno deck. A clown suit is like colorful armor. It can feel protective while allowing your colors to shine brightly. (I want to do this presentation wearing my clown suit I made from scratch and full makeup. I also want to show a power point with pictures, w/ consent of people in their clown gear with a short quote describing their personas)
Cultivating Communal Care Through Kink by Sir Free and boy Bennie
Through this workshop we are going to explore kink and BDSM practices and how they influence personal identity and development. We'll then consider how we can apply those identities and personal growth to utilize them in our everyday lives to facilitate communal care. We will utilize various experiential techniques to foster introspection, intimacy and connection.
Deviancy Amongst the Deviants by WaywardSoul
TW: This class may include potentially triggering topics, subjects, or kinks. We often say things like “don’t yuck someone else’s yum”, “your kink is not my kink and that’s okay”, and “keep an open mind”. But even within kink spaces some practices get side-eyed, labeled taboo, too dangerous, or not acceptable under any circumstances. Some are given special names to distinguish them from their “less controversial” cousins. And some come with a red flag that sparks concern, even among seasoned players. In this roundtable-style class, we’ll examine some of these kinks and ask broader, community-focused questions like: Why is it taboo? Is “it” even a legitimate kink? How can we differentiate healthy practitioners and those using kink as a smokescreen? Where’s the line—and is there even one at all?
Diamond Harnesses by Jack Handcock
This rope bondage panel is all about wearable decorative rope. We will create 2 different diamond patterns; the Karada Hishi and the Half Hitch Hishi. These two diamond patterns will create different looks on the body. Time allowing, we will review the double coin knot which can be used to add more style to the Karada Hishi. This panel does not require any prior knowledge of rope bondage to participate. If you would like to participant hands on rather than just observe bring a long 2-3 pieces of 7-8m/25-30ft rope (limited supplies will be available to borrow). Those participating will be doing so under the principles of R.A.C.K. (Risk Aware Consensual Kink).
Did you say CBT? by Master Castle and Slave Chy
We hear a lot about CBT (cock &ball torture) but what about playing with the exquisite pain and pleasure of vagina owners. In this class we will discuss the precautions we need to take while playing with CPT ( clit & pussy torture) and how to negotiate this type of play. As we explore some of the delightful ways we can play and get creative with our vagina owners. While demonstrating some of the techniques we will be discussing.
Domination from the female perspective by TheSirDee Heart
Domination from the Female Perspective This class explores the journey of female dominance, both in practice and within the traditions of the leather and BDSM community. Together, we will dive into what it truly means to walk the path of a female dominant—the joys, the challenges, and the realities that often go unseen. We’ll discuss the good, the bad, and the ugly, offering a transparent look at the responsibilities, expectations, and personal growth that come with stepping into and owning dominance. Starting from the beginning of the leather journey, this class will highlight the processes, traditions, and milestones that shape a dominant’s path. We’ll explore what it means to embrace leadership, nurture authority, and balance power with compassion. We will also discuss the progression toward being recognized and covered as a Sir and, eventually, as a Master—what those titles mean, what they require, and how they are earned through service, community, and personal accountability. Whether you are new to the lifestyle, curious about dominance, or already walking the path and looking to deepen your understanding, this class provides insight into the lived experiences of a female dominant. It is a space to learn, reflect, and engage in open discussion about the unique perspective and power women bring to dominance in the BDSM and leather world.
Don’t like ageplay, why? by Bambi Twist
In this class, we will explore why ageplayers are often stigmatized within our community and examine how we can begin to break down the stigmas and stereotypes that surround ageplay. Despite being a valid and consensual form of roleplay for many adults, ageplay is frequently misunderstood and met with judgment—even within our own community.
Drip by Drip - A class on wax play by Aurabella
Aurabella's class dives deep into the art and technique of wax play, blending creativity, safety, and sensuality. Participants will learn about different wax types, melting points, setup, cleanup, and how to avoid common risks. Through practical guidance and discussion, attendees will leave inspired and confident to explore wax play responsibly, safely, and beautifully within their own dynamics.
Embodying Power: Fat Liberation, Ritual, and Reclaiming Kinky Space by Dr. Rachel
Fat bodies have always been powerful — but in a culture that teaches us to shrink, apologize, and disappear, claiming that power can feel radical. Antifat bias isn’t just personal; it’s systemic, shaping how fat people move through medical systems, public space, and yes, kink and leather communities. For many of us, shame, stigma, and exclusion live in the same body we’re trying to bring into scenes, pleasure, and connection. This workshop offers an affirming space to explore how ritual, kink, and embodied self-care can support fat liberation and reclaim pleasure. Through storytelling, grounding exercises, and gentle ritual, we’ll name the weight of cultural messaging, honor the sacredness of fat bodies, and explore kink as a site of spiritual, emotional, and erotic reclamation. Together, we’ll build tools for joy, resilience, and unapologetically taking up space — not just in playrooms, but in our lives.
Emotional Labor & Kink: Knowing When to Hold Back, Give, or Walk Away by Sarai311
This session explores the emotional labor that often travels alongside kink, not just in scenes, but in the roles we play as caretakers, femmes, BIPOC, and emotional anchors. Through quiet reflection, journaling, and boundary-mapping, we'll unpack what it means to be "emotionally available" by default, and how race, gender, and role expectations can blur the line between care and depletion. We'll name the signs of consent fatigue, misread intimacy, and emotional outsourcing, and explore scripts and strategies for reclaiming your capacity without guilt. This class is a soft place to land; offering tools, language, and space to reassess when to give, hold back, or walk away.
Empowering Your Chosen Family: Estate Planning and Decision-making by Ogun
This class will help you learn the importance of estate planning and tools available to address planning issues so you can resolve common issues that warrant the use of estate planning documents.This class is for everyone, yet specially geared for those in dynamics or polyamorous relationships where estate planning can be challenging. Additionally, this class offers insight into ways you can effectively craft estate solutions in dynamics and relationships that exist outside of the standard family structure system..
Erotic Caning by Master Chase
Here is a class for bottoms, submissives or slaves that hate caning! Or maybe for people who never tried to be on the receiving end because of some silly fear that canes hurt! And a way for tops to get their people to crave canes! I'll cover what canes work best for pleasure, some techniques, safety, and how you can push limits. It will be fun and informative no matter which side of the slash you find yourself. And if you have never been caned before, I guarantee you will want more!
Ethical Bratting In M/s by Master Edgar and slave raven poe
Playful Rebellion With Purpose Can it be done?? Batting is often misunderstood, especially in the context of Master/slave relationships. Where obedience is required and disobedience often punished. But what if Bratting isn’t disobedience and is about connection, communication and play? This class we will explore how ethical bratting works within the M/s framework. Can deepen the connection between Master and slave, and reinforce the power exchange, through correction and ritual.
Ethical Predation - Hunting in All Environments by --Dreamer-- and TwisterTail
In Primal BDSM dynamics, the role of the Predator is instinctive, intense, and deeply personal — but also demanding of clarity, ethics, and emotional intelligence. This class explores threading the needle of raw instinctual predation that doesn't sacrifice social and personal boundaries for the hunt. What does it mean to hunt your partner when you already have them and they're just as eager for you as you are them? How do you maintain the spark of pursuit in long-term dynamics? What does it look like to hunt with integrity in public kink spaces without slipping into inappropriate behavior? Let's examine the role of the Primal Predator not just in the bedroom, but across all environments — including munches, meet-and-greets, and pick-up play settings. In long-term established dynamics, and in fresh, exciting, NRE-fueled connections. You are invited to bring perspectives and experiences of what the role of the Primal Predator looks like to you! Whether it gets you hot or is a big red flag, audience participation is welcome for this session.
Exploring Energetic Connections by anandalila
Our bodies are surrounded by an energetic field that allows us to connect with each other on an erotic plane. Let's play with those connections individually, as a group, and as partners or polycules, in order to bring more depth and excitement to our erotic encounters and aftercare rituals. People of all genders and affinities are most welcome. Please note: single participants will be matched with other single participants. If you prefer a partner of a specific gender, please bring them with you.
Exploring Power, Energy, Spirituality, and its Mismanaging in Dynamics by Master Sa'Vage
In the realm of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance/submission, Sadism/masochism), the interplay of **Power**, **Energy**, and **Spirituality** is crucial. These elements can enhance the experience and deepen connections between partners, but when mismanaged, they can cause significant harm—mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. This exploration will define these key concepts, discuss potential risks when they are mismanaged, and offer practical strategies for mitigating harm and ensuring a safe, consensual, and fulfilling experience.
Face flogging by CarmillaJBX
Enhancing Safety, Connection & Catharsis This workshop explores the art and technique of face flogging with a focus on safety, consent, and emotional awareness. Participants will learn proper impact placement, communication cues, and aftercare strategies to create intense, transformative experiences. Emphasis is placed on building trust, enhancing connection, and navigating cathartic release in a controlled, supportive environment.
Faith: Masters lead the way by Lady Catherine
Master, will you step off the edge? Will you place full faith in your fully competent slave, Master? Explore relational components both parties build cooperatively as a foundation to support faith as a component of advanced mastery. Examine this possible path for seasoned relationships in their fourth or fifth year. The payoffs of this transition generate raw emotion, stretch the M/s bond, deepen devotion, and create a deliberately interdependent dynamic. This class is for Masters and slaves who have three to six years of continuous relationship experience.
Fear play Basics and beyond by SourPatchSadist
Fear play is an intense and rewarding edge of BDSM, where psychological tension and trust meet. This class explores how to use fear intentionally and safely to deepen connection, enhance emotional impact, and build powerful shared experiences. Designed for beginners and intermediate players, this session focuses on the foundations of psychological technique, negotiation, consent, and safety in fear-based scenes. You’ll learn how to use anticipation, environment, and controlled unpredictability to create intensity without harm. Through lecture and live demonstration, we’ll cover practical strategies for scene design, maintaining emotional and physical safety, and building trust before, during, and after play. Participants will leave with the knowledge and confidence to incorporate fear responsibly and creatively into their dynamics.
Fierce Conversations: The ART of SAFE Pick-Up Play by MasterDHM
How do you plan a SAFE scene on short notice without crossing boundaries or violating CONSENT? Are you interested in "pick-up" play? Have you met a potential play partner at a dungeon or party, but know very little about them or don't have a mutual history to build from? Bring your questions to this interactive class as MasterDHM discusses common principles such as safety, (pre-, during-, and post-scene) play time responsibilities, communication, and consent to engage in a mutually enjoyable scene. He will also demonstrate his negotiation style for pick-up play, offering His "Rules of Engagement" tips and tricks that have proven successful for many years.
Fire and Focus: Channeling Power in Submission by Mainey
Channeling Power in Submission invites people to rediscover the strength and vitality within surrender. Too often seen as passive, submission can instead be a deliberate, fiery act of will much like a dragon choosing whom to protect or serve. This class explores how dragons, powerful by nature, embody submission as an offering of strength rather than a loss of it. Through discussion and reflection, participants learn to stay grounded in intensity, transform obedience into devotion, and wield their inner fire with purpose, confidence, and care.
Fisherman chest harness by Rogi
A fisherman's chest harness is a good alternative to standard TK for people who like their hands to be bound. I modified the standard harness to be safer for suspension. The added wave pattern of the rope leaves interesting rope marks. This harness can be loaded only from the front. I primary use this harness with a fully clotted models who do not want to take off there under wire bras.
Fisting - A hands "IN" Workshop by daddy don
The workshop takes the attendee through preparation, safety tips and techniques for anal fisting. Due to time constraints, I will complete this is the near future. The workshop takes the attendee through preparation, safety tips and techniques for anal fisting. Due to time constraints, I will complete this is the near future.
Foot Play not Worship by Ms. Alexxa
Do not be ashamed of a love of feet or foot play here. When most people think foot fetish, they think of massaging, licking and possibly smelling feet. However, there is so much more to foot fetish. Do you want to know how to utilize your feet or someone else's as a part of play? Maybe even torture feet? Everything from foot fucking, trampling, bastinado, foot worship, foot care, info from the male and female side, tops and bottoms. This class is about learning about using heels for foot play, foot fucking, trampling, and more. A bit of safety and foot care as well. This class will involve a bit of class participation (if you want to).
For Your Own Good: Using Punishment in Your BDSM Relationships by Laura Antoniou
Ah, punishment " the art of making someone feel bad for their own good. In authority-based relationships, it's more than a dramatic moment or a stern lecture; when used well, it can build trust, strengthen obedience, and even spark intimacy (after all, everyone loves a productive performance review). We'll explore why, how, and if punishment belongs in your dynamic "examining its myths, purposes, and limits, and how to craft consequences that fit the situation and the personalities involved. You'll also learn why discipline and punishment aren't synonyms, and why you can't have the latter without a solid foundation of the former. Because when done right, punishment isn't cruel "it's constructive. And sometimes, it's just what both of you need for purely educational purposes, of course.
Forced Compliance 101: Introduction to Pressure Points (Part 1) by MasterDHM
In this foundational class, we’ll introduce the use of pressure points as a tool for control, dominance, and forced compliance within a consensual BDSM context. Designed for D-types looking to enhance their physical command, and s-types curious about power exchange through sensation and restraint, this class explores both the technique and psychology of pressure-based manipulation. Students will learn: The anatomy and physiology behind key pressure points; Techniques for achieving compliance without causing harm; Safety considerations, risk awareness, and aftercare, and; How to integrate pressure point play into broader scenes. Whether you’re a curious beginner or an experienced player looking to deepen your skills, this class will give you practical tools to safely engage in this intense and intimate form of play. Live demonstrations and optional hands-on practice will be included. Consent is mandatory. Respect is expected. Curiosity is encouraged. Safety Notice: Part 2 of this class includes an optional hands-on practical component. While every effort is made to provide a safe learning environment, participants should be aware that the use of pressure points carries a risk of physical discomfort and potential injury. By choosing to participate in the practical portion, students acknowledge and accept full responsibility for any risks involved. Participation is entirely voluntary, and all attendees are encouraged to engage only within their own comfort levels and boundaries.
Foundations of Artistic Needle Play by Lady Lynnia and fuzz
This class will not cover the foundations of needle play. This class will guide you in how to incorporate elements into your needle play to bring the canvas (the human body) to life by using artistic-decorative elements to create your own expressions of energy to life on your favorite canvas. Canvas’s (bottoms) you are integral part of this creation; how does your energy play into this dynamic. We will discuss ways to make common materials safer to use in your art as well as different ways these elements can be used. Come with your creativity as we will brainstorm ways to incorporate inspiration in your needle art.
Fun with bands: rubber band play (brown skin edition) by Bambi Twist
In this class, we will discuss how to safely engage in play involving rubber bands on Black and Brown bodies. While yes, rubber bands can be a fun, intense, and creative form of sensation or impact play, it’s important to acknowledge that different skin tones and textures can require different considerations to ensure safety and minimize harm for all involved. This class is for everyone—whether you identify as a person of color or play with people of color. My goal is to raise awareness, share knowledge, and promote practices that are thoughtful, informed, respectful and still sexy. All bodies deserve care, and understanding the nuances of how marks, bruises, and other effects of play show up differently on darker skin is an essential part of safe and consensual kink.
Get to the Point by Mystic_Sub
In this D&D, or discussion and demonstration, I will be showing people the way that I do sensual knife play to anyone who wishes to do it with me. This will include negotiations, equipment to have on hand, and techniques as well. Keep in mind that this is still considered edge play so blood could happen, just to inform those who might have an issue with the sight of blood, but all precautions are looked after well ahead of time.
Gua Sha: An Ancient Healing Practice History, Technique, Benefits and how you can use it with BDSM by mercey
Gua Sha is an ancient healing practice rooted in Traditional Chinese Medicine . It involves using a tool to scrape the skin's surface. A service for Tops and Bottoms. Safety while doing Gua Sha. I will go over the do's and dont's. How to incorporate Gua Sha into a ritual before play for tops and bottoms.How to use Gua Sha as service for both parties.
Hands on Masochist Building pain stamina by CarmillaJBX
This is a workshop to explore the boundaries of our body thru self awareness, pain, pleasure and body scanning. We will also learn techniques to explore safely our pain threshold. It will allow you creat a cooperative relationship with your body and how to take care of it for the maximum benefit in your kink life. Partner with your body to bring you the experiences you desire.
Hands that Serve, Hands that Heal by Tomo
Massage can be many things, healing, sensual, connective and in the context of service, it becomes something even more powerful. Drawing from the Japanese art of Shiatsu, this class explores how touch can be both a service, a gift and a tool, for your partner and yourself. Shiatsu is a method of finger-pressure massage that works along the body’s meridians (energy pathways) to relieve stress, ease tension, and support overall wellness. Tomo will guide participants through a basic wellness routine focused on the back and neck, along with key pressure points that can help maintain healthy muscle function and energy flow. We’ll touch on foundational concepts from Eastern medicine, including the meridian system and the role of energy balance in healing. You’ll learn how to use your body efficiently, using gravity and leverage instead of muscle strain to offer massage as a sustainable act of care and service. Participation is encouraged but not required. Come learn, watch, or practice and leave with practical skills and a new service to offer.
Happiness, Y/you & M/s Relationships by Lady Catherine
Want happy, lasting Master/slave relationships that allow you to expand who you are? Looking for ways to improve your happiness each day? This class is based on research, surveys and accepted models to buff your happiness quotient as individuals and interdependent pairings. We are going to examine the components of happiness, how to get there, and how to stay blissed out to lead a fulfilled M/s life.
Hot Wax - Hot Love by Sir pup henry
Learn about the fun of body painting with Hot Wax, and how you can turn it from a simple fun filled scene into spiritual odyssey for you and your partner. Audience is invited to participate in this hands-on workshop - all supplies and tools provided, along with take home pamphlet covering the topic. If you wish to participate as a bottom, you are encouraged to shave the respective body part(s) as getting wax off a hairy body part can be a bit challenging. Come have some fun, learn something new, connect with your partner, or someone new in a totally different setting.
How not to kill your Master in 5 easy steps by master Slave Jenna
Of course you love them — but sometimes a partner can hit that one last nerve and you find yourself fantasizing about their demise. You’re not alone. With current outside stressors increasing, this workshop provides practical, nonjudgmental tools to de-escalate tension, manage anger, and rebuild connection—so you can cope healthily without crossing boundaries or ending up needing bail money.
Hunted and Hungry: Exploring the Alpha Prey Mindset by TwisterTail and --Dreamer--
Experience primal dynamics from the alpha prey perspective in D/s and M/s relationships: the submissive who resists, challenges, and only yields to the strongest hunter. This interactive class explores how to hunt the hunter as well as be hunted, turning resistance into invitation and making surrender earned. Through discussion and guided exercises, discover how predator-prey power struggles heighten desire, connection, and the thrill of being claimed.
HuPets: When Anthropetized Edge Play Becomes Role by Amethyst_glaze and elle marie
This workshop highlights Human Pet Play (HuPets) as a form of power exchange rooted not in animal mimicry, species reduction, or regression narratives, but in devotion, discipline, containment, and belonging. Participants explore anthropetization as an edgy relational framework that blends humanity with the surrender of "being kept." Through discussion and introspection, attendees learn to distinguish consensual role embodiment in objectification and degradation from dehumanization, and how embracing these kinks—without minimizing their fundamentally human desire—can function as sacred, connective practices of trust, care, and validating affirmation.
Hypnosis Beyond Trance by Garou (Intensive click for tickets)
Hypnosis, perhaps more than any other form of play, is subjected to misinformation and pseudoscience. It is often presented as functioning by a trance state, a mesmeristic “nervous sleep,” but this is not the case at all. In this class we will discuss the tranceless model of hypnosis, its numerous advantages for erotic play, techniques to make the most of your hypnotism, tactics for active bottoming, and more!
I am a handler, now what? by Kippy
You have a pet! Now what? We'll dive into how to support and engage your pet, including communication tools to understand their needs, fun games to play together, and gear ideas to enhance your dynamic. We'll cover how to set clear expectations, negotiate pet needs ,Maintaining the emotional safety of both handler and pet. Explore different types of pets " from Aardvark to Zorilla and how their personalities can inspire your play.
I Screwed Up – Now What? by Ms. Kelly Chance and boi Di
One of the defining things about being a human being is that we are imperfect. When a mistake is made it can damage a relationship, or it can become what we think of as a muscle building opportunity. Join us as we share some of our make-or-break moments and how we used them to strengthen our relationship. We will discuss ways to make an apology that can repair the mistake. Understanding what our apology languages are and what it means to make amends that will stick for the long haul.
Ichinawa: One Rope Bondage Workshop by -GENE- and SnackBottom
Explore the art of Ichinawa, a minimalist form of Japanese rope bondage that emphasizes elegance, control, and intimacy using a single rope. This workshop is designed for both beginners and intermediate practitioners who wish to deepen their understanding of rope techniques and enhance their connection with their partners. What You'll Learn: The philosophy and history of Ichinawa and its place in Shibari/Kinbaku. Basic safety guidelines to ensure a consensual and risk-aware practice. Fundamental knots and ties used in one-rope bondage. Techniques for creating aesthetically pleasing and secure single-rope harnesses. Ways to establish and maintain clear communication with your partner during bondage sessions. Practical tips for improvisation and creativity with a single rope. Requirements: Participants should bring a 6-8 meter length of natural fiber rope (e.g., jute or hemp). Comfortable clothing that allows for movement. An open mind and a willingness to engage respectfully and consensually with others.
Identity Shifts: Navigating personal growth and identity/role transitions by Pixie
In this community where we get to put our most vulnerable, feral, raw, and true versions of ourselves (as we know it), it can be difficult when we have an identity shifts. In this discussion, I will lead with personal examples of role, geographic, gender, sexuality, and age identity transitions as we explore personal confidence, relationship organization, and impacts and strategies to support navigating the desire to be seen for our ever-evolving selves. (Tracks: Community, Relationships, & Personal Growth)
Inclusive Rope by Cherry Moon
Every person in rope deserves to be treated with respect and dignity (unless you’ve negotiated otherwise, of course.) Tying a diverse array of people takes practice; however, the truth is that every single body has different needs and abilities. Advocating for your needs and preferences in rope, especially if you fall outside of the stereotypical rope body, isn’t always easy. There is no such thing as “one size fits most” in rope, so this class will explore some of the stereotypes and myths surrounding tying different body types. We will practice thinking outside of the box and adapting ties for mobility needs, body sizes, etc. We’ll discuss using both pre-scene negotiations and somatic cues in-scene to approach rope from an adaptive lens. This class is for tops, bottoms, self-tiers, and everything in between, regardless of skill level. Class goals: Understand what “All Bodies Are Rope Bodies” actually looks like in practice. Have clear ways to negotiate rope for diverse body types. Leave feeling empowered to approach barriers in rope creatively.
Integrity, Politics and Emotional Safety in the Scene by Master Chase
You've been burned and bruised in life. You want to walk away from all of those crazy kinky people because no one says, or does what they say they will! How can you trust again? The stuff we do, whether it is rope, impact play or role playing, has the potential to send us spiraling deep down into despair. And it does not matter whether you are a top or a bottom. It can happen to all of us. So how do you protect yourself? How do you get through it? We'll talk about ways to protect yourself, and ways you can come back from devastation. We'll cover ways to find the integrity in others, how to avoid 'dungeon politics' and how to pick play partners that are safe for us. This class may be triggering for some. Let's all try to take care of each other.
Invisible Protocols by Master Edgar and slave raven poe
Ever notice a couple who seems to have no visible structure—yet their dynamic feels unmistakably present? That’s the art of invisible protocols. In this class, we’ll explore what invisible protocols are, how they develop organically within relationships, and why some M/s or D/s pairs choose to practice them quietly rather than publicly. We’ll share examples from our own dynamic, discuss how to design protocols that fit your style and setting, and learn how even subtle gestures can reinforce connection, respect, and authority
It Doesn't Get Easier With Time by Master Trent & slave Kelly
We’ll explore authority exchange relationships as having stages, and with each stage comes challenges, excitement, adjustment, and a need for a strategy to get through that stage. We’ll use our own experiences as well as our observations of others we have known. It’s like a novel or movie with a beginning and then choose your own adventure. As the relationship matures and we age things change and we need to adapt as we go.
Karada dress by Rogi
Diamond patterns are so common in shibari. This course will show you how to start the Karada diamond pattern. How to use it for dresses, or just addition to your rope ties. With one modification, it can be used for suspension to. Will teach you where to pay extra attention and how to prevent the slipping of it. There is few ways to finish this dress.
Kink and Recovery: Parallel Paths to Wellness by BrattyGinger and OceanEyedDevil/Chris
This class explores the powerful parallels between the principles of healthy kink dynamics and the principles of addiction and mental health recovery. We will discuss how core concepts like consent, boundary-setting, and communication are not just foundational to safe BDSM play, but are also essential skills for living a sober, self-aware, and fulfilling life. We will discuss how the mindful, intentional practices of kink can serve as a framework for healing and personal growth.
Kink in Poetry & Prose by Sarai311
Kink in Poetry & Prose is a creative writing workshop that invites participants to explore their kink identities through erotic storytelling, emotional excavation, and embodied authorship. Blending poetry, prose, and narrative reflection, this session centers the written word as a space of kinked reclamation and personal power. Through guided prompts, participants will write memories, fantasies, and confessions, all without pressure to share. A trauma-aware approach supports those navigating desire, shame, and transformation through writing. Whether your words are raw, poetic, fragmented, or filthy, this space affirms them all. Bring a journal, an open mind, and permission to write yourself whole.
Kinky and Menopausal by anandalila
Is it hot in here or is it just me? Let's have a candid conversation rooted in body liberation about the experience of peri/menopause while kinky. Participants will have the opportunity to laugh, cry, and cringe together as we share stories and receive support around this time of physical, spiritual, and emotional transition. Cis women, trans-masc, and nonbinary people are all welcome. Please note: this space is free from diet culture. No medical or nutritional advice will be offered or tolerated.
Lasting Impression: Emotional Impacts of Bruises and Other Marks by Artemis
This class will explore the emotional experiences connected to physical marks being left on the body (CONSENUALLY) in play. For example, some may see a bruise and feel very excited for the next scene, or feel more connected to their long-distance Dominant. Some may see scars or needle marks and feel proud of themselves for expanding their pain threshold- marks impact us more than just physically. We will also cover possible ways to show appreciation for marks, as well as a couple of tips and tricks for removing/fading accidental or obvious marks (NOT MEDICAL ADVICE BEYOND FIRST AID, which I am certified in.)
Leather culture ain't so scary by Max
People decked in leather huddled in a circle can seem scary to some, but at the heart of it Leather is funny, filled with laughter and support. Leather came together at a time where people needed the support and judgment free zones. To this day, that still remains the same. Leather is filled with dirty raunchy sex, dynamics in and out of the dungeons, charity work, community help, friends, family, and support
Leather leadership by Master J. Tebias and Empress Jessica Akanke
This class examines leadership within Leather communities through the lens of legacy, accountability, and succession. Grounded in the framework and themes of Master J. Tebias’s book on Leather leadership and legacy, the session explores how leadership is formed, sustained, and, too often, undermined when succession planning is absent or unclear.
Drawing from lived experience, community history, and ongoing dialogue, this session looks closely at gatekeeping, the difference between title and trust, and the reality that leadership is not self-appointed—it is affirmed by the community over time. Participants will be invited to consider how leaders are cultivated, how power is transferred responsibly, and what it means to steward a legacy rather than simply hold a role.
This class is designed for those who hold leadership positions, aspire to leadership, or care deeply about the long-term health of Leather communities, particularly during periods of growth, change, and generational transition.
Leather mentorship and community by Master J. Tebias and Sir Demarcus
This is a class that touches on the similarities of mentorship, which is in direct connection with community. I break down the similarities between the two components along with the series of questions for the class. I end the class with key Takeaway points and food for thought. Even from the book, I think that this class would be far more informative in person than actual reading the manual script.
Legal, Legit, and Leather-Clad: Starting Your Org Right by Lady J and smigs
You've got the vision, the passion, the leather but what you don’t have is a legitimate business structure. Whether you're launching a new kink-positive brand, building a dungeon space, or dreaming of a non-profit to serve your community, this class is for you. We’ll cover the thrilling world of… (drumroll) entity formation! Yes, it can be sexy when you realize that choosing between an LLC, corp., or 501(c)(3) could mean the difference between thriving—or getting smacked by unexpected taxes. In this empowering and slightly cheeky session, we’ll dive into: The difference between for-profits and non-profits (and why it matters to you); Which entity-type is best; The steps to setting up a legit organization—from mission statements to EINs; How to apply for tax-exempt status (and what not to do unless you enjoy rejection...) Special considerations for kink, leather, and alternative lifestyle orgs—because our communities often walk a unique line in public perception and legal standing. Come with questions, leave with a plan!
Letting the whip do the work by NotQuiteAsian
If you've used a whip or even if you haven't, we're gonna teach you how to be more acurate with the whip, learn a few fancy cracks to get the energy flowing, learn how let the whip flow better, learn how to use with less effort in throwing a whip for a better experience, and learn which length of whip is good for you and what you are trying to accomplish.
Littles Movement Class by PrincessSparkle5
Join us for a high-energy and super fun Littles Movement Class at SELF, perfect for our littlest attendees and their caregivers! This session is all about letting loose, wiggling, and shaking out the sillies in a welcoming and supportive space as we explore various movements through imaginative games, exciting music, and simple choreography to get everyone smiling and grooving. Get ready to moo like a cow, create heat, and dance to your heart's content.
Littles Unite by b_wylde
This class will discuss various little identities. We will talk about the stigmas that littles face today and collectively brainstorm ways and ideas to encourage positivity and acceptance towards littles in our community. We will discuss what activities or phrases that can easily trigger little space and why consent is so important in this type of headspace and dynamic.
Littles Yoga by PrincessSparkle5
Join us for Littles Yoga at SELF, a gentle and playful session designed for our littlest attendees and their caregivers! We'll explore imaginative poses, gentle stretches, and calming breathwork, transforming into playful animals and reaching for the stars in a fun and engaging way. This class is perfect for developing body awareness, learning calming techniques, and connecting with others in a supportive environment. Please wear comfortable clothing, bring a yoga mat or towel if you have one, and come with a playful spirit.
M/s Even When Life Happens by Ms. Alexxa
Life doesn't stop just because you're in an M/s relationship. Sometimes, the dynamics need to shift to adapt and grow with the changes life brings. Through countless challenges and experiences, my slave and I evolved over the course of 3-4 years. After nine years of service, our dynamic grew even stronger, though in ways we hadn’t anticipated. In this class, I’ll share our journey—how my slave and I navigated the trials we faced, how we chose to respond with positivity, and the lessons we learned about what we could have done differently.
M/s Intensive by Master Varii
A Master/slave relationship is NOT for everyone, in fact it isn’t for most, but for those who choose this path it is deeply meaningful (though not easy on either side of the slash). It requires commitment, deep trust, strength, and continued growth. In this Intensive we will help you examine some important questions concerning establishing, growing, and maintaining a long term, healthy M/s relationship. We will address misconceptions (even within the community), look at responsibilities on both sides of the slash (short term and long term), and examine the challenges and pitfalls (including the danger of complacency)? Please bring a notebook and pen (or equivalent), and a willingness to dig deep. This will be a highly interactive and self-reflective workshop style intensive designed to both challenge and energize you whether you are just exploring possibilities or looking to grow and improve a decades-long existing relationship.
Make Me Melt by Slave Sunflower and Sir Daniel
Finding ways to keep things spicy is the important. This class is an introductory into the Kinky world of wax play. You will learn various types of candles, temperatures, how to safely use them on your partner or partners or on yourself. You will also leaen how to incorporate all 5 senses with this form of play. Most of all How to make it fun sexy!
Male submission - Putting the stereotypes to rest by Domina Alluriah
Male submission is often misunderstood in a Patriarchical world where the presumtion is the woman is the weaker sex and defers control to her Male coutnerpart. But what about men in service to other men? What about men who serve platonically ? Why does male submission automatically defer to the image of sissies and wimps? In this discussion we're going to blow those stererotypes out of the fucking water and talk more about the value, strength, and purpose of the male submissive. It's not just sexual. It's not just degradation and humiliation. Male submission can be beautiful, strong, and valueable. If you're a male Dominant thinking of switching, or if you're not sure you have a place in the community because you present masculine but identify as an s-type, this discussion is for YOU!
Managing the Power Slave by Liza Sibley and Jody, Liza's slav
Good slaves are rarely doormats. In fact they are usually pretty dominant, although not with their Master/Mistress. (This may be equally true about a good submissive.) In this class, International Master and slave 2011 & 2021, Liza and her slav, Jody, will explore the joys and challenges of owning a powerful slave/submissive (or being a powerful slave/submissive). We will discuss techniques for attaining high performance and willing obedience while encouraging creativity, self-direction (in service of the Master/Mistress), and bliss. Audience participation is appreciated.
Mastering LS Relationships: The CCW Method by M. Mocha Breeze
The CCW Method is an effective tool for mastering A/all relationships by identifying exactly what's missing (or has gone off the rails!) and how to fix it. CCW focuses on Capacity, Capability, and Willingness of B/both partners to increase awareness, empathy, accountability, and most of all - expectations. CCW = Realignment.
Morphing into Canes: How to Energize Your Pervertibles by Dex
Canes traditionally have been made out of rattan. Dive into Dex's imagination and see what kind of pervertibles can be pulled out of vanilla life and transformed into a cane or rod. Learn a spectrum of cane techniques and delve into free-form caning using pervertibles. Come see Dex's ensemble and learn some new notes and leave with your own pervertible cane. The first 30 people attending will receive a pervertible cane as a door prize.
Navigating Submission in a Power Exchange Relationship with Agency and Consent by boy Jeremy
Entering into a power exchange relationship as a submissive can be intimidating, especially when you’re afraid of losing control or being lesser. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Hillside Leather boy Jeremy will show you the ins and outs of long term power exchange, setting expectations and negotiating with your dom, and learning to prioritize your revocable consent. This workshop will show you how to walk in your submissive role with confidence and brilliance.
Navigating the scene as a unowned Pet by Trina Hudson
What defines a pet when you aren’t owned? Is your identity any less real without a leash, collar, or handler? This class explores what it means to be a solo or unowned pet in kink spaces. We’ll dive into navigating temporary dynamics, short-term power exchange, and how to stay grounded, playful, and valid—on your own terms. Whether you’re between homes, choosing autonomy, or still discovering your creature self, this space affirms your path and honors the joy of pet play without pressure.
Needle Play 101: Exploring the Art of Blood and Sensation by SourPatchSadist
A comprehensive class designed to prepare you to explore the world of blood play and needles. Learn the fundamentals of this precise and intimate edge play, where control, trust, and care come together. We’ll cover proper safety techniques, cleaning and sterilization to mitigate risks, and how to select and handle your tools with confidence. You’ll learn how to properly insert and extract needles from your bottom, understand body placement, and manage both the psychological and physical aspects of the scene. We’ll also discuss specific negotiations for needles and blood play, scene structure, and aftercare — ensuring you have the knowledge and confidence to play safely, intentionally, and beautifully.
Painfully Pretty: Needles 201 by nice_girl
In this class you will learn how to use needles and other embellishments to create something painful and pretty. You’ll see sadistic techniques interwoven with decorative elements. You’ll also see the contrast between suffering and beauty within the same composition. You may find inspiration for your next painfully pretty scene. You can satisfy both the sadist and masochist at the same time with a beautiful creation that will not only torment the bottom or masochist but leave them in agony. Let your creativity and imagination run free!
Parenting in the lifestyle by Sir's peach
The community is filled with parents in healthy dynamics. But how much of those roles overlap? This class explores ways to parent while maintaining your dynamics. I share my experience as a 24/7 slave and a full time parent. We’ll discuss how to explain your relationship to your children, what it looks like to honor your dynamics and protocols in front of them, and how to protect yourself from the legal threats some parents are faced with.
Pet Play and You by Kippy
Dive into the vibrant and diverse world of BDSM pet play in this engaging and educational class! Pet play is more than just barking and wagging tails "it's a dynamic and creative way to explore identity, connection, and expression within kink. In this class, we'll move between the basics and a closer look at the many types of pets within the pet play spectrum. From the loyal pup to the Zebra, we'll explore the unique traits, behaviors, and dynamics each pet identity can embody. Whether you're a curious newbie, a seasoned pup, or exploring your own unique type of pet, this class offers insight, inspiration, and practical tools to take your pet play to the next level. Come discover your inner animal "or learn how to engage with pets of every kind!
Playing by the Rules: Legal Considerations in Kink and BDSM by Ogun
This class is about the intersection of the law and leather/BDSM/and kink. I will be discussing how criminal law looks at consent, kink and fetish activities; the potential civil ramifications that can arise from contracts and play; as well as providing an overview of the present posture of civil rights laws and how they impact our community.
Poly Bottom: Serving Multiple Tops by Ceansa
Multiple tops, multiple fun! Or is it multiple problems? Come learn about how to juggle serving multiple tops and several organizations without totally falling apart! We will talk about balancing individual needs and schedules, facilitating communication, being a good hinge, dealing with conflicting commands/expectations, and managing your own self-care. Conversation will also touch on butler books, shared calendars, emotional landmines, anticipatory service, when service is not service, recovery and resets, and more!
Power Beyond Play: An Introduction to M/s Relationships by Akuda and sweetwisteria
Power exchange extends beyond scenes and structured play. This class introduces the foundations of M/s and D/s relationships, examining authority, trust, and intention in daily life. Participants will explore how to navigate challenges, cultivate intimacy, and establish functional, balanced dynamics while learning strategies to maintain connection, communication, and mutual respect within an evolving power exchange.
Power, Privilege, and Poverty: The Class Divide in Kink by Eldest Iconic Saint
Who gets to stand at the front of the room? Who gets to walk across the stage? Who can afford the gear, the travel, the play spaces, or even the ticket to the event? Too often, our communities unconsciously reproduce the class divides of the outside world. This workshop takes an unflinching look at how financial, educational, and social class shape access and belonging in Leather and kink spaces. From the expense of boots and uniforms to expectations of titleholders and the hidden costs of our “pay to play” culture, we will identify where classism creeps in, how it limits participation, and what inclusive practices look like in action. This is not a guilt trip, it is an invitation to awareness and compassion. And together, we will name barriers, share stories, and develop strategies for making sure our community is accessible across the income spectrum. Attendees will leave with tools to check their own assumptions, their privilege, and to build spaces where people are valued for their authenticity and contribution, not their wallets.
Preserving Your Identity: Strategies for Self-Care and Wellness in Dynamic Settings by BrattyGinger and OceanEyedDevil/Chris
This course explores essential strategies for maintaining your sense of self within a dynamic. Participants will learn how to develop personalized self-care contracts, identify and manage triggers, and implement effective safety and aftercare plans. Designed for those seeking to strengthen their emotional resilience and preserve their well-being, this class provides practical tools for entering a dynamic without losing sight of who they are.
Processing Games with Ms.Proxy by Mx Proxy
Join in on this hands-on workshop and set yourself up for clear and fun communication! Do you have some unanswered questions about your dynamic? Just starting out and don’t know what to ask? Learn 3 new games you can play with your chosen one to make difficult conversations a breeze. As a bonus, leave with some contract basics that help any dynamic thrive. Everyone is a winner with these games!
Professional Kinksters by Phobos Onyx
A discussion on being “outted” as a kinkster in a professional workplace. Being “outted” as gay is one thing, but as both gay and a kinkster is a different story. The assumptions, the rumors, the stares are very different. A vanilla world can have a wide array of reactions as that leather band-aid is ripped off, you are pulled out of that gear closet, and the spotlight is on you. This has recently happened to me, and I invite you to discuss the effects it can have on work performance, relationships, mental health, safety, and life moving forward.
Pushing All my Buttons! by boy Badu Ngozi
The first half of the class focuses on safety and preparation including: consent structure, anatomy, cardiovascular areas to avoid, and certifications or knowledge that can help you build a responsible practice. The second half features a live demonstration of self-poking and the creation of “pain buttons,” followed by a guided discussion on removal, aftercare, and emotional processing. This class is best suited for an intimate format where curiosity, consent, and safety are prioritized above all else.
Rediscovering Little Space by Bunny Girl
For so many, little space is a headspace of release, processing, and safety. So what happens when we have lost touch with what can be a cathartic escape? Either out of necessity or the inability to make time. Together, we will discuss ways to get back in touch with your little and middle headspace. From communicating with partners to solo play. Let's all get back into the playpen.
Rituals That Bind, Rules That Breathe: Building Living Protocols by Akuda and sweetwisteria
Structure provides stability, clarity, and connection in relationships. This class explores the role of rules, rituals, and protocols, how to craft them thoughtfully, adapt them as relationships evolve, and integrate them into daily life. Participants will learn how intentional structures strengthen trust, deepen communication, and foster lasting meaningful connections.
Rope & Somatic Resonance by CraigJustCraig
an exploration of how rope interacts with the nervous system and body awareness. Using deliberate pacing, repetition, and mindful touch to tune into subtle shifts in breath, muscle tension, and emotional release. exploring rope as a medium for emotional and somatic RESToration. Through gentle, intentional ties and mindful touch, cultivate trust, presence, and deep connection with themselves. This session emphasizes slow, rhythmic movement, attuned mindset, and conscious holding to create a space where rope becomes a vessel for release, grounding, and interpersonal resonance.
Rope & Sound by CraigJustCraig
Weaving rope with soundscapes to deepen immersion. Using rhythm, resonance, and vibration (instruments, voice, sound scapes, and ambient textures) to guide the body into trance, release, and connection . exploring rope as a catalyst for the body's natural chemistry: serotonin, cortisol, endorphins, oxytocin, and adrenaline. evoke focus, connection, flow, and exhilaration. " a dance with The Five.
Rules, Boundaries, and Agreements: Structuring your polycule ethically by Quinn and Carrie
Curious about how to strengthen connection and communication in your poly relationships? This workshop breaks down the foundations of healthy communication in polyamory—with a quick dive into where our relationship models come from, why people choose poly, and how to navigate boundaries, rules, and requests in ways that actually work.
Sacred Chores: Transforming Domestic Tasks into Devotion by Mainey
Sacred Chores: Transforming Domestic Tasks into Devotion explores how the simplest acts of care, folding laundry, setting a table, caring for someone’s space can become rituals of connection and intention. This class reimagines domestic service as a mindful, powerful expression of devotion rather than obligation. Drawing on the idea that service is an offering of energy and attention, participants learn how to infuse ordinary tasks with purpose, presence, and reverence. This approach treats home and routine as sacred ground, where every motion can honor both self and dynamic.
Sacred Kink - Creating Ecstatic BDSM Play by Mufasa Ali
In this workshop we will explore the powerful intersection of kink, spirituality, and emotional well-being. In this brave, sexy, and affirming space, we will explore beyond the physical to discover how your kink practices can become a pathway to self-discovery, spiritual growth, and genuine connection. We'll delve into key principles like treating consent as a sacred act "moving beyond "yes/no" to explore intentional, attuned communication. You'll learn how to integrate mindfulness into your play, grounding yourself in the present moment to enhance sensation and connection. We'll also experiment with common kink archetypes"“like Dom/sub, Top/Bottom, switch, and more"“not as fixed roles, but as tools for understanding different facets of yourself and your partner(s). We'll create a strong container with consent and an exploration of limits. You will practice hands-on tools for crafting a scene. This isn't about religion. It's about exploring kink with intention, opening yourself up to the flow, and inviting something deeper. Kink can be about enriching your experience, healing past wounds, and finding the sacred within"“if you surrender to it. Come as you are, and leave with new insights and practical tools to deepen your intimacy with yourself and others. Don't just play "connect on a profound level and allow yourself to go wherever it takes you!
Sacred Scenes: Ritual, Queerness, Resilience and Reclaiming Power Through Kink by Dr. Rachel
Ritual and kink have long been intertwined — both are spaces where bodies, intention, and power meet. For queer, neurodiverse, and kinky people, these spaces can become more than just play: they can be sacred opportunities for authenticity. This workshop explores how we can use ritual, intentional structure, and embodied presence to deepen our kink scenes, support emotional and mental well-being, and reclaim power from spiritual or cultural systems that have sought to erase us. We’ll examine how ritual can offer grounding, connection, and meaning without cultural appropriation or dogma. Participants will learn practical tools to personalize ritual in their own dynamics — from simple opening and closing gestures to more elaborate power exchange structures — and explore how kink can be a site of healing, resistance, and joy for queer and marginalized brains and bodies
Safety and proper technique in impact play by Sadistic Bunny
Okay. So let's talk about impact play for just a minute. I'm not going to talk about the different toys that can be used. What I would like to discuss is safety. Knowing where to strike and where not to strike. The human body is an amazing thing in that it is extremely resilient. It can heal itself relatively easily. However. If engaged in improperly, impact play can be extremely dangerous. I'm not talking about the minor scrapes and bruises. I'm talking about the major injuries that can occur such as broken bones, bruised organs, torn ligaments and tendons, etc.... Those types of injuries. It's why technique is so unbelievably important. Any fool can pick up a flogger or a dragon's tail and start wailing away. But there's a science that's involved with impact play. Understanding the skeletal system, anatomy, the central nervous system, and even brain chemistry are important when engaging in this type of play.
Say What? The Art of O/our Communication by M. Mocha Breeze
This class focuses on communication between B/both sides of the slash when there is power exchange and/or authority transfer. W/we learn how to sift through what the Giver is saying and how to determine if this is the message they intended (spoiler alert - it usually is NOT)... understanding what the Giver intends is an art form and does not happen without proper tools and effort. Even long term dynamics will benefit from this level of communication by relying on the 3C's for intentional communication: Clear, Concise, Concrete delivery!
Scary, Dark, and Painful Play for Bigs and Littles by SnuggleNugget and TheDotingDaddy
It’s more than pacifiers and stuffies! Sometimes called “Dark Ageplay,” this class dives into the edgier, less fluffy side of CG/l play—the complex and powerful space where vulnerability meets intensity. Together, we’ll explore how to safely and intentionally incorporate elements like fear, taboo, and pain into ageplay scenes while preserving trust, consent, and emotional connection. Discussion will include negotiation techniques, scene design, emotional aftercare, and tips for ensuring both partners feel grounded and supported. This class encourages open conversation and reflection for those interested in expanding their CG/l play beyond the soft and sweet into something deeper, darker, and just as meaningful.
Self Accountability for bottoms by mercey
A session on being accountable for yourself and your actions. How to acknowledge, over come and be more aware. This is in regards to play, relationship dynamics and more. Submission regret is a thing and needs to be talked about, as well as Dominant regret. Sometimes you get caught up in that frenzy and do not make the proper decisions . Just because you can does not mean you should at all times. Using your words, asking the questions , What's your motivation?. Self advocate and and be accountable for the choices you make.
Self-Tie Peer Share by Cherry Moon
Want a dedicated space to practice a new tie or brush up on old skills? Join us for this peer-based rope skill share to learn and connect together. While this class is centered around self-tying, everyone is encouraged to join regardless of experience level and role. Peer-sharing is encouraged for this lab-centric class. Ask a question to the room, offer to teach a tie you love to someone next to you, or just enjoy tying in a safe space. We will have several mini lessons prepared for break out groups, from fundamentals to more advanced self ties, catering to the needs of beginner and intermediate-level students. So bring your rope and ideas and show up ready to share! Class goals: Lab ties in a safe space. Find connection and solidarity amongst rope peers. Receive constructive feedback on your rope projects. Share your knowledge and insight with others.
Slap Happy: Hand Play by Mufasa Ali
In BDSM "games", percussion play is a very popular sport. Percussion or impact play is any type of striking type of play that wields a hand or impact implement at a part of the body for arousing pleasure and/or pain. There are many types of impact play instruments, but for this class we will focus on using the hands to provide the most impact, so bring both of them along for a slap-happy time together.
slave Positions, Training, and Protocol by Sir Valentino and Sir's peach
Slave training, positioning, and protocol can be a beautiful physical expression that enhances any power-exchange relationship. It can help both the Dominant and the submissive focus on their roles while bringing physical aspects of power exchange into any space you occupy. Everyone knows how to use positions and training during a scene, but do you know how to train your slave to make your life easier? Join U/us and let U/us help you explore ways to train your submissives with everyday tasks AND position them in ways you find appealing and useful, but sexy, for everyday life.
Sledgehammers, and crowbars, and rebar. Oh my! by Sadistic Bunny
What I will be focusing on in this workshop is safety with, what many consider to be extreme impact toys. Toys such as sledgehammers, rebar, and crowbars fall into this category. The mere mention of these types of toys often brings uncomfortable feelings to many. While for others, these toys bring a certain amount of apprehension. And still others are curious almost to a fault. I will demonstrate how these toys can be used relatively safely in an impact scene, and how to not seriously injure someone. These toys, due to their very nature, are considered extreme and dangerous. This Workshop is designed for advanced impact players who understand the way the human body works, and want to add to their skill set. I invite you to come and learn what it means to throw these types of toys.
So you think you can dine pt 2 by Master Castle and Slave Chy
In this second installment of so you Think you can dine. We will build on the topics we discussed in the first class by getting hands on. s-types will explore how to set a formal dining table, clearing and refilling plates and glasses, running through a typical schedule of events, and putting together a menu. D-types will practice signaling for their needs using formal dining etiquette, accepting service gracefully, how to build a typical schedule of events and how to negotiate and setup a order of service for a successful event.
So You’ve Been Asked to Handle Contestants by Bunny Girl
When I was first asked to be a handler for a leather contest, I had no idea what that would mean. I was told that all I had to do was make sure they were on time, fed, and hydrated. It was so much more. A talk on the experience from a full-time contestant handler. Advocating for myself and for my contestants. From contest prep to title holder events.
So You want to Own a Dungeon by master Slave Jenna
Who, What, Where, When, How, and Why—these are the critical questions that must be thoroughly considered and clearly defined before beginning the search for a space. This session will examine each of these elements in depth, exploring their significance, potential challenges, and how well-informed answers can guide effective decision-making.
Speculums, Sounds, and Scalpels, Oh My! Infiltrating the Mind and Body with Medical Play by Master Velvet
Not just playing doctor in the dungeon, medical play encompasses a wide array of play styles, toys, and activities. Medical play is much more than violating existing (or freshly made) orifices, and when done correctly, it offers a way to deepen the intimate connection that occurs when we exchange power. In this presentation, we will discuss a variety of play ideas for all genders.
Stop Paying For Your Smut! by Little_Librarian
Stop Paying For Your Smut: read the kinky books you love while saving money! Have you ever found a great read , but had to put it down to save money? Ever wanted to read those spicy kindle books, but don't have the money for a kindle? Come listen to Little_Librarian give you all the secrets of the trade - including how to get those smutty reads for free!
Struggling (and succeeding) with Submission and Surrender by Liza Sibley and Jody, Liza's slav
For this discussion, we will be examining submission and surrender, and taking a closer look at the obstacles s-types encounter in submitting and surrendering to a master/mistress/owner/dominant and the barriers the M types encounter in accepting and honoring submission and surrender. We will look at a few different paradigms for constructing and organizing M/s, O/p, and D/s relationships, and discuss what might best facilitate joyous submission, surrender and/or alignment of wills for each of us (because there is no one size fits all in this world). We may also discuss speed bumps along the way in sustaining successful submission and/or surrender long term.
Stumbling Blocks to Stepping Stones by Ms. Kelly Chance and boi Di
Don Miguel Ruiz said, “We search for everything we believe we don’t have, not knowing that everything we are looking for is already inside us. We are born with it.” We all know what it is like when we feel there is a barrier between where we are in life and where we want to be. For Ms. Kelly Chance and her slave boiDi, the most significant lesson learned on their respective BDSM/Leather journey is that the primary barriers have been the stories we tell ourselves. Join us to explore what is merely at story, how stories can limit growth, where they come from, and what we can do when we realize we are in control of our own story.
Table It: Conversational Safewords by Master Damascus and Demir
Power exchange relationships thrive on structure, trust, and clarity, but what happens when emotions run high and communication breaks down? Enter “Table,” the emotional safeword that helped Master Damascus and slave Demir navigate conflict without sacrificing connection or protocol. In this candid and often humorous class, they’ll share how “Table” became a tool for emotional regulation, respectful pauses, and returning to difficult conversations with intention. Blending real-life stories with insights from attachment theory, communication styles, and emotional intelligence, this workshop offers practical tools for any dynamic, especially when one or both partners lean avoidant. Expect demonstrations, audience prompts, and strategies you can take home and use immediately. Because intimacy takes work and sometimes, it takes a timeout.
Talk to Me by Master Bear
Even the strongest among us have days when the words just won’t come. In Leather spaces, clear communication is the backbone of trust, but what happens when your spoons are low, burnout is creeping in, or your mental health is faltering? This class dives into practical strategies for navigating tough conversations during hard times. Through a blend of lecture and roundtable discussion, we’ll explore how to recognize when you’re struggling, who to reach out to, and how to communicate your needs without shame. Learn to build support systems, face difficult moments with honesty, and prevent breakdowns before they happen — because even on stormy days, your voice matters.
Tantric Kink: When M/s, Sadism, Mashochism meet Love and some Pretty Good Sex by Master Nwachi and slave adorable
Tantric Kink is an exploration of the shadows and the light of self and dynamics, whether based in ethical, consensual non-mogamy or ethical monogamy. Tantric Kink can help individuals find and celebrate their erotic narratives, which, “...including the unruly impulses and painful lessons that no one--except those who retreat from life--can possibly avoid.” A Tantric Kink can help individual kinsters, whether in dynamics or not, better understand how T/their, (H/hers, H/his) sexual arousal interplays with the “challenges of living and loving.” Participants will ●Define Tantric Kink for T/themselves ●(If able and prepared) Explore T/their darkest sexual experiences and desires, giving them insight into T/their unconscious core stories, which can color behavior and decisions ●Get insight on how to use Bondage and Rope as tools for mindfulness, ●Discuss how love, sex, and spirituality can be a part of S/m and M/s, ●Begin to create a process for them to explore the darkness and light of their dynamic in order to bring about a stronger and more intimate holistic dynamic ●Think about how slow sex and edgy sex can both lead to greater understanding of self, partners, and dynamics
Technical Energy to Sensual Energy: A Deep Dive into Erotic Bootblacking by boy Badu Ngozi
This deep dive is meant to give an intro to supplies and tools used during bootblacking. It will serve as an Intensive 101. With a focus on energy exchange, Technical to Sensual will demonstrate how the shift from technical bootblacking to erotic bootblacking is all about energy. The tools and supplies are the same.. its all about headspace. Participants will find ways to engage in connection through bootblacking. More than a polish, it care connection and energy made visible.
Tender Violence: The Art of Cunt Torture by Marilyn and Rio, Marilyn's slave
Cunts are such gloriously sensitive areas, and causing agony and discomfort in those areas are a sadist’s delight. Marilyn will demonstrate many different ways to cause delicious pain, using pain for pleasure, hurting safely, marking or not, and aftercare for everyone. Rio will offer herself up to Marilyn’s ministrations, and share her perspectives from the other side. Together they will talk about how pain can enhance D/s and how to process pain. Experienced and novice players welcome. Demos will be advanced and may include blood play.
The Alchemy of Sensation: Processing Pain by Madam Brianna Bunni Akanke
This immersive class explores the intricate relationship between pain, pleasure, and personal empowerment within consensual kink and BDSM dynamics. Participants will learn how to safely experience, process, and channel pain in ways that enhance intimacy, deepen trust, and unlock new dimensions of sensation and self-awareness. We’ll cover a comprehensive range of topics, including practical techniques for navigating physical sensations, psychological strategies for managing emotional responses, and methods for cultivating mindful presence during intense scenes. Whether you identify as a bottom, top, or switch, this class provides actionable tools to help you transform discomfort into meaningful experiences that heighten pleasure, connection, and personal growth. Through guided exercises, discussion, and scenario-based learning, attendees will explore: • How to prepare mentally and physically for pain-based play • Techniques for regulating and processing sensation in real time • Strategies for turning intense experiences into sources of empowerment and intimacy • Ways to communicate needs, boundaries, and aftercare effectively with partners • The psychological underpinnings of pain, pleasure, and control in dynamic exchanges By the end of this class, participants will leave with a deeper understanding of their own thresholds, a richer toolkit for scene navigation, and a newfound ability to embrace pain as a transformative force for pleasure, connection, and self-mastery.
The Art Of Serving : A M/s Perspective by Daddy Zulu and girl sommer Misfit
A Dive into the journey of service through our lens as we share our opinions and the tools we use about the art of serving in addition to gaining insight from others. domestic, self care and other variations. Presentation will include visual graphics and a short demo on how we use service in our relationship with each. Audience participation is also encouraged.
The Art of the Poke by Rib_Rob and Wreyn
Prick up your ears "it's time to play with edges and endorphins. We'll dive into needle play from the ground up: risk awareness, consent, and how to keep things clean and intentional. Explore sensation arcs, from light pricks that tease to patterns that pull focus and deepen power exchange. We'll talk about reading a bottom, pacing a scene, and using breath, rhythm, and placement concepts to shape what the brain feels "pleasure, pressure, or delicious intensity. Expect clear discussions of negotiation, hygiene, and aftercare so curiosity can meet confidence. Come see how a few well-placed pokes can turn a simple scene into an unforgettable ritual. Trigger Warning: Needles and references to blood
The Art of the Singletail - An Intensive Course by Sir Valentino and Sir's peach (Intensive click for tickets)
This single-tail intensive course welcomes all skill levels of whip users. We'll explore the fundamentals like basic strikes to advanced techniques like wraps and precision play and everything in between. Under Sir Valentino's one-on-one guidance and creative direction, you'll learn to craft a complete, skillful scene using only a whip.
The Boot Accessories by Willie Tradesman
This class showcases crucial boot accessories often left out of a basic polish kit. Featured items include practical tools like Long Shoe Horns and Boot Hooks for easy wearing, a sturdy Boot Jack for painless removal, and essential Cedar Boot Trees to absorb moisture, eliminate odors, and perfectly maintain a boot's shape etc.
The Current That Shapes Us- Energy Persona Mastery: Erotic Charge, Polarity & Scene Energy by FireOnTheMtnTop (Sacred Fire Kink) & Leecee (Sacred Fire Kink)
This workshop introduces participants to the energetic layers of kink—how we carry, exchange, and shape erotic energy. Through breathwork, guided reflection, and partner exercises, we explore dominant energy personas like the Spark, the Current, the Pulse, and the Abyss. Participants will learn how to identify their personal energetic signatures, sync energy with a partner, and create scenes with intentional charge and polarity. No previous energy work is required—just curiosity and a willingness to experiment.
The Evil Overperson Guide to Relationship Management by Laura Antoniou
So "you like to wear black leather with spikes, or command attention in crisp uniforms and gleaming boots. Face it: you're a villain. The Ultimate Evil. The Big Bad. The Wicked Fiend. The Conniving Vizier. (You know who you are.) But even the most magnificent tyrant can't rule without good management skills. How do you maintain a thriving empire of evil while keeping your minions, co-conspirators, and adored captives productive and loyal? Simple. You need a rule book. Luckily, there is one. Join your fellow malevolent beings for a delightfully wicked workshop where we apply the wisdom of the classic Evil Overlord Rulebook to real-world power exchange, communication, and relationship maintenance. Because an organized despot is a happy despot "and nothing says "healthy dynamics" like a well-run lair.
The Funification of Kink by UsagiPlease and MercuryBound
Feeling tied down by your rope routine? Bored to tears from the same old beatings? Excitement waning on your waxings? Put the fun back in your kink! Our practices and structures for kink over time can slump from cathartic rituals to monotonous routines. We combat that monotony through a process we like to call Funification. This workshop will ask colorful creativity of its studio audience as we discuss the core pillar of Funification: Leaning into the Play in Playtime. Join your hosts Usagi and Mercury as we explore: 1. Where the Party At?!: Recognizing Where our Own Practices Need Refreshing 2. One Rule to Rule them All: Finding or creating ways to mitigate harm while infusing fun 3. Survey Says: An Interactive Discussion on Taking Well-Known Game Concepts and Kinkyifying Them 4. the Points Don't Matter: The studio audience will help the hosts decide on an improv game using the prompts they submit via online poll (Clown noses encouraged, but not provided.)
The Power of Words: Navigating information ethically in the M/s community by Master Dylan and slave tee
In the Master/slave lifestyle, how we handle information can build trust—or destroy reputations. This interactive workshop explores ethical ways to share, verify, and protect information within our community. Participants will learn to distinguish between warning and gossip, and develop tools for integrity-based communication that strengthens connection and accountability.
The Spark Between Us - A 3-Hour Hands-On Workshop in Energetic Connection & BDSM by FireOnTheMtnTop and Leecee (Intensive click for tickets)
A 3-Hour Hands-On Workshop in Energetic Connection & BDSM Description: There's more to kink than what you touch "it's what you feel. In this immersive workshop, we'll dive deep into the unseen force that crackles between Dominant and submissive: energy. Whether you've felt the static in a gaze, the pull in a breath, or the weight of presence alone "this class is designed to help you harness it, amplify it, and wield it with intention. Through guided practices and partnered exercises, you'll learn how to: Sync your energy before a scene through breath, eye contact, and grounding touch Use Dominant energy to guide, shape, and control the flow of a scene Read and respond to submissive energy feedback in real time Manipulate energy mid-scene to build, edge, release, or calm Practice shared breathwork, energetic projection, and non-verbal control Explore the difference between physical touch and energetic impact This is not a class about spanking or bondage "though those things are welcome in your play. This is about what happens before the first strike. It's about tension, resonance, surrender, presence, and the invisible current that makes a good scene unforgettable. Whether you're a Dominant who wants to lead with more than just your voice, or a submissive who wants to better understand how your energy speaks "this class offers tools, theory, and embodiment to explore the spark between you. Bring: A partner if possible (not required), something to sit or kneel on comfortably, and an open heart. Touch-based exercises will be part of the experience; all participation is opt-in. Who's it for: All gender identities, orientations, and experience levels welcome. Taught from an inclusive, trauma-aware, kink-affirming lens.
The spectrum of Ageplay and Littles by Aurabella
Explore the emotional and relational spectrum of ageplay with Aurabella. This class delves into the variety of roles and dynamics within ageplay and littles communities, covering communication, negotiation, boundaries, and emotional safety. Participants will learn to challenge common myths and misconceptions while gaining practical insight into building authentic, consensual, and fulfilling connections in ageplay relationships.
The Thrifty Top and budgeting bottom by Sir Daniel & Slave Sunflower
Are you new to kink or just looking for an inexpensive way to spice things up? This interactive class offers not only some new and fun ways to keep things interesting...we also show you how to keep it under budget! We will walk you down the aisles of our favorite stores and from room to room through the house to show you new ways to use everyday items.
To little or not to little!? by slave Princess Poppy
This class is designed to help both Littles and D-types build mutual understanding, trust, and respect within the age play dynamic. For Littles, we’ll explore how to recognize when it’s an appropriate time to slip into little space, and how to communicate those needs clearly and safely. For D-types, we’ll discuss the importance of honoring the little identity with the same respect given to any other role or identifier — understanding that for some, being little isn’t something that can simply be switched on or off. Together, we’ll learn how to navigate these spaces with empathy, open communication, and care — creating an environment where both sides of the slash can feel seen, supported, and free to have fun while maintaining mutual respect and boundaries.
Too hot to handle: Why do we need handlers anyway? by Pixie
Are you interested in running for a contest and don’t have your support team built yet? Have you ever wanted to be a handler or support contestants as they prepare to run for a title? In this workshop I will provide offer opportunities for comprehensive support developed from my experience coordinating/directing contests and serving on handler teams.
Tops need love too by Babybenz
We celebrate subspace and aftercare for bottoms, but rarely talk about the needs of Tops. This class explores Top space, Top drop, and the emotional and physical load of topping. Learn how partners can support their Tops and how Tops can recognize and communicate their needs—because care in kink should always go both ways.
Tremble & Trust: The Body, Play, and Healing by Master Ray
To tremble is not to break… it’s the embodied experience of remembering, responding, and opening. In this class, we explore the profound overlap between trauma, play, and healing. Learn how to hold space for yourself and your partners when play stirs old wounds, and discover ways to grow trust - even in edgy scenes. We’ll talk about how trauma lives in the body and how kink can either awaken or soothe it, depending on how it’s approached. You’ll learn what traumatic arousal can look and feel like, and how to respond with care when it happens. We’ll explore ways to stay grounded and connected with your partner, how to negotiate play that's exciting, safer, and how to use aftercare to support embodied integration of the experience.
Up In Smoke - A cigar deep dive by WaywardSoul
Are you the type who wants to know just as much about something as how to play with it? We discuss cigar play a lot in our community, but what about the cigars themselves? From the top who wants to know more about their smoke, to the bottom who wants to truly know about what they’re serving, if you’re like me and crave understanding this one’s for you as we focus on the cigars themselves. What *is* a cigar, exactly? How are they produced? What differentiates one from another? Humidors? Lighters? And what the hell’s a v cut, a straight cut, and why use one or the other? We’ll break it down and discuss all things cigar. Leaving you with a deeper understanding, and hopefully new appreciation, of these all-to-often misunderstood bundles of leaf.
Vet Like Your Life Depends On It: Vetting with Intention by Master Bear
In the Leather community, vetting isn’t just a formality — it’s a crucial act of self-preservation and community care. This class explores the importance of intentional vetting at every level: people, places, events, and opportunities. You’ll learn practical methods to build a strong baseline of questions, utilize multiple resources, and spot both red and green flags. Through candid conversations and real-world examples, we’ll equip you to gather the information you need before getting heavily involved or misled. Vetting with intention isn’t about fear — it’s about moving with clarity, confidence, and power.
Vetting and Negotiating for Caregivers and Littles by SnuggleNugget and TheDotingDaddy
Proper vetting and negotiation are essential parts of any BDSM dynamic, but CG/l relationships come with their own unique needs and challenges for both Bigs and Littles. In this class, we’ll explore what makes these dynamics distinct and how to approach them with care, intention, and self-awareness. Together, we’ll discuss real-world strategies for safer and more thorough vetting and negotiating within the ageplay community, including how to identify compatibility, set expectations, and build trust from the very beginning. You’ll leave with practical tools, thoughtful questions, and new perspectives to help create safer, more fulfilling, and emotionally secure CG/l dynamics.
Wax Play: Art. &. Eroticism. by LeathermanLynx
This course will be lecture format with live demo to follow. Attendees will learn and discuss elements and environments safe and necessary to explore a hot wax scene, culminating in a full wax play demo to illustrate what was discussed and how it can look in real time/real life moments. We will discuss types, textures, safety, set-up and break down. Time permitting, attendees may volunteer for a short introductory demo.
We All Belong; Living Leather While Incorporating Ageplay Into Your Dynamic by Bigdadddy205 and aluinn205
Join Bigdadddy205 and aluinn205 as we discuss how to include ageplay into your dynamic, and show that ageplay and Leather are not mutually exclusive. Whether DD/lg, AB/DL, or any number of other combinations, it is entirely possibly to incorporate ageplay into your dynamic, and to walk your Leather path while living that dynamic.
What the Fork? Dining Decorum Demystified by Master Velvet
For many of us the phrase “formal dining” conjures up conflicted memories of uncomfortable clothes, unwanted questions from nosey relatives, and dining rules both rigid and arbitrary. In reality, the etiquette and expectations of formal dining are intended to provide a structure wherein everyone knows the rules so they can easily share space on an equal footing. When done properly and with care, formal dining creates the sort of inclusive space that reflects the values of the Leather community. Whether your affair is blindly vanilla or a bacchanalian soiree, check your white gloves at the door as Master Velvet demystifies formal dining. Attendees will be freed from worry about which fork to use, how to fold their napkin, and the fine art of pleasant conversation.
When W/we Rise: Climbing Out of the Ashes with BDSM by Master Nwachi and slave adorable
Psychologist Stafanie Goerlich (2023) wrote, “kinky clients can leverage the space BDSM creates for ritual formation to support their own mental and relational well-being….” Rituals can help K/kinsters do the following: ●Reduce Alienation ●Promote Social Inclusion ●Inspire Relationship/Family Bonding ●Start Reintegration after Conflict (what she calls “harmony restoration”) ●Decrease Loneliness ●Encourage Hope ●AlleviateAnxiety and Depression ●Create Ecstatic Experiences ●Increase Intimacy ●Facilitate Closure ●Begin Forgiveness When W/we Rise focuses on healing from trauma and exploring personal growth through the practice of BDSM, kink, and Leather. Master Nwachi and slave adorable discuss how T/their experiences with BDSM, kink, and Leather, particularly protocol and ritual creation, helped T/them overcome divorce, diabetes, mental & spiritual pain, and T/their fear of entering a dynamic.
Whip Intensive: The Bullwhip by Dex (Intensive click for tickets)
The ultimate whip to transfer energy during a scene and into a dungeon set is the bullwhip. This intensive examines bullwhips of every length from 2 ½' up to 6'. The whip lasagna or build a whip maker uses to construct a bullwhip affects its energy transfer down the thong and its finish. Finishing on target is essential in a dungeon scene. Practice with different types of bullwhip builds from natural belly, shot loaded, mini-zenith, spiral wooden handled, spiral wound and plumb line loaded. See what type of build feels and finishes the best in your hands. Hand switch techniques and two handed bullwhip throwing during the last hour. Learn to crack in rhythm and when to crack and not to crack.
Who Does the Dishes? by Master Trent & slave Kelly
In a Master/slave dynamic, it is often challenging for the Master to find the right balance between control and compassion. Even in a high-level authority-based relationship there needs to be an understanding that “everything” can’t fall on the shoulders of the slave. We will look at the dynamics of a M/s relationship and discuss how to incorporate compassion without compromising control in our daily lives. Suitable for all levels of experience, generally focused on the role of Masters/Dominants.
Will it bite or will it tickle? Electro play with Rob by Rib_Rob and Wreyn
Demo Bottom: wreyn It's time to shock people and charge up your play! We'll discuss the aspects of electro-play, the safety considerations, and the different implements and their characteristics. Come understand, see, and feel how electricity can add to your arsenal. Learn how electro play can be used for pleasure or punishment in your dynamics and how it can improve your power exchange. We'll cover Violet Wands, TENS units, and the different ways to change the sensation with simple grounding adjustments. Time to jolt ourselves wet! What better way to start than with electricity! Trigger Warning: Taser and Electrical Zapping Sounds
Working Polyamory relationships by Master Robert and slave Megan
Considering expanding your current relationship involves thorough preparation to ensure the success of a polyamorous relationship. Assessing whether your existing relationship is ready for this addition is essential. Identify internal boundaries and why they are important. Honest, open communication is crucial. Handling situations that feel uncomfortable or go awry requires patience. This discussion will strategize how to prepare for polyamorous relationships by examining communication, education, limits, and the needs of your current relationship.
Yes, Master - but First, a Nap: Balancing Service and Self-Care by Marilyn and Rio, Marilyn's slave
For those of us who serve, service can be an imperative that trumps all else. But how do you carve out time for yourself? Often we sacrifice our own wants (and sometimes needs) in favor of service. In this class we'll discuss open communication, how we can balance service with self-care, and how to engage those we serve to help facilitate this. Please share your own experiences in this interactive workshop.
You RangConcierge Service Anyone? by indigo minx
Unmatched Assistance, Stressed Reduction, and Personalized Knowledge. Do these sound like something you need in your daily life, or maybe just occasionally? If so, look no further. Concierge Service provides personalized assistance with a wide range of tasks, from arranging travel and reservations to managing errands, event planning, and even home services, aiming to save clients time and enhance their quality of life. This service is often found at hotels. However, what if I told you that this service could be applied anywhere even within alternative lifestyles? Many may say well that's the duty of an stype. Well, what if an stype is in need of these services, or what if a Dtype does not have a stype that is in service to them and would like assistance. What if an stype wants to be in service to a D-tpye without a long-term contract agreement or is looking for a way to be in service to the community. Wouldn't it be neat if with one call you could have someone to attend to your needs. Going to a conference and you want your room set up a certain way? You were rushing and left your teaching materials at home, and you have to get into a corset and don't have time to run to Staples to reprint? Do you have a medical condition and need assistance, or if you just feel playful and want someone at your beck and call. Let me walk you through the pleasures, privileges, and the fun of concierge service while avoiding the pitfalls. It does not matter where you are in your kink journey concierge may be a good fit for you! At the end of my class I hope to Engage you in a New Concept Tempt your Curiosity Entice to learn more, revive your passion of learning, Gain new perspective that leaves you Intrigued, Zest and Entertained. ENTERGIZED!!!!